FAQs

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please let us know if you are able to join us by August 31st, 2026. You can RSVP by navigating to the RSVP tab of this website!

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What is the dress code?

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Dress to celebrate! Boots, breezy dresses, tailored suits - think elevated Western garden party.

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Will the wedding events take place indoors or outdoors?

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All events will take place outdoors. October in San Diego is typically very pleasant during the day with potential for a bit of chill in the evening. There will be heaters in the evening for your comfort.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin at 5pm, so please arrive at least 30 minutes prior, in order to enjoy a welcome drink.

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Where should I park?

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We recommend utilizing rideshare if possible, however, there is parking available across the street in front of Allen Elementary School.

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Are the ceremony and reception at the same location?

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Yes. The entire wedding will take place at the Murphy Residence

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to space limitations, plus ones are limited. If your invite includes a guest, this will be specified on your RSVP. Thank you for understanding and helping us keep things intimate!

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Are children invited?

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While we love your little ones, we're keeping our wedding an adults-only celebration (except immediate family). Invited children will be specified on your RSVP.

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Are you registered anywhere?

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You can find our registry by clicking the "Registry" tab at the top of this site!

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Where should I stay?

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We put together a few recommendations for anyone traveling from out of town on the "Travel" tab on this website.