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Catherine Murphy

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Matthew Cogen

October 16, 2026

Cape May, NJ
145 days145 d8 hours8 h50 minutes50 min52 seconds52 s

Our Story

Cat and Matt like to say they met through Orange Theory, mostly because it sounds a little more wholesome than admitting they actually met over tequila shots at a bar during an Alabama football game. But in a way, it’s still true. They were both members, and that night their friends recognized each other from class and started talking. That simple moment brought their two groups together and set everything in motion. The group spent the evening talking and laughing over pizza, and somewhere between sharing their values and watching slices slide across the table, a genuine connection began between Cat and Matt. The next morning, everyone met again for brunch, and their little friend group quickly became inseparable. Cat and Matt tried to keep things in the “just friends” category to protect the dynamic they all loved, but it soon became clear that something deeper was growing. What started quietly and unexpectedly became something real, steady, and enduring. Over time, they discovered how naturally they balanced each other. Matt with his calm steadiness and Cat with her vibrant, uplifting energy. Together, they brought out the best in one another. Their days filled with simple, meaningful routines: long car rides with Diet Cokes in hand, catching up after work, visiting family often, spending quality time with friends, and doing everything they could with their two dogs. Two homes together, two dogs, and countless shared memories convinced Cat that Tennessee wasn’t just where she lived.. it was where she wanted to stay, because it was home with him. Now, four years after the weekend they met, Cat and Matt are getting married. Life has a beautiful way of surprising us, and blessing us in ways we never expected.

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