FAQs

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What should I wear?

Answer

We hope everyone will feel as gorgeous as we do at our wedding! Even though we're at a park, we're going for semi-formal/cocktail party/nice dinner out/family photos/celebration kind of vibes. Soooo dress to impress, but don't be stressed!

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What's the weather going to be like?

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Finger's crossed we'll have the beautiful weather we've grown accustomed to having down here in beautiful San Diego. We're going to be outside for the ceremony and cocktail hour, and then move inside for dinner and dancing. Sometimes it can get a little chilly in the evening.

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What time should I arrive?

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The wedding ceremony starts at 2.30pm, so please plan to arrive around 15-20 minutes early to park, walk over to the Amphitheater, and find your seat.

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Who else is coming?

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All the best people of course!

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Do I need to RSVP?

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Yes, please send back that RSVP card as soon as possible. We understand that things come up, and if you have any changes to the plan later on please reach out to either Richard or Stephanie, so we can plan accordingly.

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How do I get to Sweetwater Summit and is there parking?

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Sweetwater Summit Regional Park is a bit southeast of San Diego, and directions on Google Maps are very helpful. Once inside the park, there are signs to both the Amphitheater and Community Room. There is plenty of parking near the Amphitheater (Ceremony) and Community Room (Reception). Both sites are very close together and easily walkable, so you can park at either location. If you plan to imbibe, please consider a ride share. We want everyone to have a good time and get home safely.

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Do I have to dance?

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Yes. Bring those dancing shoes! We're gonna have a good time. **ok, nobody is going to force you, but we really hope you will join us on that dance floor**

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Can I bring my children?

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Unfortunately, due to space and budget limitations we've had to limit the children invited to the wedding. You will see a few children at the wedding, however they are immediate family members or children of the wedding party, and were included on the RSVP cards. We appreciate your understanding.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Drinks are on us! We will be serving beer and wine during the cocktail hour and reception, Cheers!

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Can I post photos on social media?

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Sure! Use #tohaveandholder so we can see all your shots too!

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What time does the wedding end, is there an after party?

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We have to wind down by 8.15pm, and after party plans are in the works. Watch this space!

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I have dietary restrictions, can you accommodate them?

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Most likely yes! Please make a note on the RSVP card, or let Stephanie or Richard know. We are planning for vegetarian, vegan, and gluten free options, and it will be helpful to know in advance how we may accommodate you. The menu we've planned should have something for everyone.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to space and budget constraints, we haven't been able to include "Plus Ones". Thank you for understanding.