FAQs

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WEDDING ATTIRE & weather

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Summer Formal. Long or midi dresses. Florals are encouraged! Bridesmaids are in green and yellow floral. Block heels or sandals are recommended for the grass and gravel. Suits or jackets with ties or bow ties for men. Feel free to have fun with the colors! Typical weather for late June on Cape Cod is high 70's during the day, and low to mid 60s at night. We recommend packing a sweater or light jacket in case it's a tad cooler that weekend. If you need some inspo, you can copy and paste the URL into your browser to see our Pinterest board! https://pin.it/4PinXQhbp

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Food & Allergies

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We want to make sure everyone leaves our wedding full and happy! Please note in your RSVP any dietary restrictions or allergies. We have gluten free and vegetarian options for all meals and events. Our welcome event will be filled with yummy food so please come hungry!

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kiddos & plus one

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We love your kids so much! However, we would prefer you keep your little humans at home for the night. Your invite will include "and Guest" if you have received a plus one. Please do not bring anyone we did not formally invite ourselves.

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Booking & Beaches

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We recommend you book your travel ASAP if you plan to stay at a hotel, AirBNB, fly, take the train, ferry or bus. You can find the links to our hotel blocks and travel recs on the "Travel & Accommodations" page. Recommended beaches in the area: Chapaquoit Beach, Old Silver Beach, Bristol Beach, Falmouth Heights, Nobska Beach Most beaches in the area are public, but the parking is usually "resident only". We recommend Ubering, walking or biking to nearby beaches.

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transportation, travel & traffic

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Shuttles will pick up and drop off at the Sea Crest Resort and Inn on the Square. If you are not staying at a hotel, you can Uber or cab directly to the farm, or to one of the hotels, and hop on a shuttle. If you drive from NY or NJ, be prepared for some traffic through CT and heading over the bridge. We recommend giving yourself extra buffer time coming to and leaving the Cape. There are plenty of Ubers and cabs once you get to Falmouth, and walking is always a great option!

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wheelchair accessibility

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We are taking every measure to make sure that anyone requiring extra assistance or wheelchair access won't have any issues on the farm. We will have a full floor down under the tent and will provide golf cart service to and from the ceremony site for those who need it, and will also have an ADA-compliant portable toilet on site.

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donations to bourne farm

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Bourne Farm is located on over 51 acres of fields, trails and woodlands in West Falmouth. It is part of the Salt Pond Areas Bird Sanctuaries. The mission of Salt Pond Areas Bird Sanctuaries is to protect and preserve Falmouth’s open space wildlife habitat, historic buildings, and to provide educational classes to all ages. You can donate directly through their website or on our registry!