FAQs

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What's the dress code?

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Classic and refined. To ensure our wedding photos remain timeless, we request no flashy fabrics, sequins, or sneakers. Thank you for celebrating with us in style!

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What is the RSVP deadline, and how do I RSVP?

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While the RSVP Collection is open now, we do ask that you please RSVP via the link provided by no later than October 7th. This ensures we can provide our vendors and accommodations with final and firm numbers for our date. If you're an out-of-town or destination guest, this will allow you enough time to make travel and accomadation arrangements.

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What are the easiest transporation routes to get to Tudor Barn Eltham?

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*By Train (Fastest & Easiest) Take a Southeastern train from London Charing Cross, London Bridge, or Waterloo East to Eltham Station (~25 minutes). From Eltham Station, it's a 10-minute walk or a short taxi ride to Tudor Barn. *By Bus (Cheaper but Longer) Take the Xpress 321 bus from London Bridge or Lewisham towards Eltham (~40-50 minutes). Get off at Eltham High Street and walk about 5-10 minutes to the venue. *By Car, Taxi or Uber (Most Convenient) A taxi or Uber from Central London takes about 30-45 minutes, depending on traffic. Expect to pay around £30-£50, depending on demand.

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Is there a schedule of events?

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Yes! - Our ceremony begins at 14:00. We suggest guests arrive between 13:00 and 13:30 to find seating for the ceremony and reception service and to take advantage of our pre-ceremony cocktail service. :) - Post-ceremony you can enjoy our cocktail hour and our additional activities at 15:30 before heading upstairs for dinner service. - Our drinks and dance reception will follow and a late snack will be served at 21:00, with carriages at 23:45.

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Are kids welcome?

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Except for the Godchildren of the Groom, and children of the Bride, we hope you understand that due to space limitations, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration.

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What should I do if I have dietary restrictions or allergies?

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Please let us know in your RSVP, no detail is too small! Your safety and enjoyment on the day are important to us.

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Is there transportation or parking available?

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While there is parking available on the streets in the neighborhood near Tudor Barn, we believe it may be easier to walk or Uber from the station stops or if you're staying at a hotel close to Tudor Barn. Carriages will be provided to take guests to Eltham Southeastern Station in two shifts.

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Is the location accessible for those with special needs?

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Yes! Our location has accessible toilets and a stairlift. Please let us know in your RSVP if you require assistance on that day and we will make sure an attendant is available for you.

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What accommodations are nearby?

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You can find all suggested nearby hotels on our travel page with links to book!

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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If your invitation includes a plus-one, we would be delighted to have them join us. However, if your invite is addressed only to you, we kindly ask that you attend solo to help us keep the celebration intimate. Thank you for your understanding!

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Are there any COVID-19 guidelines or health considerations?

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While there are no guidelines, if you feel more comfortable wearing a mask, please do. There will also be hand-sanitizing stations.

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Will there be a gift registry?

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Gifts are not required but any donations that guests wish to make to our honeymoon fund would be gratefully received.

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Are there any photography or social media rules?

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For our ceremony, we kindly ask that you keep your phones away until after we’ve said our vows. It’s so important to us that our photographer captures this special moment without a sea of screens. Once we’ve walked back down the aisle, feel free to snap away and celebrate with us! Additionally, we'd like you to please hold off on sharing any photos of our day on social media as the day rolls along. Out of courtesy to our moment, please wait until the following day. Feel free to use the hashtag #athingforeachother

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What should I do if I have questions or need assistance?

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If you have a question that cannot be answered by the information on this site please feel free to reach out to moandandrew2025@gmail.com