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Can I bring my children?

Answer

We are very sorry, but we are keeping our special day as an ADULT-ONLY occasion.

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What is the dress code?

Answer

Cocktail Attire! Please also note, this wedding is both inside and outside, so please dress appropriately for the weather!

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Is there a Wedding Registry?

Answer

In lieu of a traditional registry, we've decided to create a fund for our next great adventure! Your generous contributions will help us create unforgettable memories as we start this new chapter of our lives, so please bring your envelope to the party.

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Where should I stay?

Answer

The Patterson Family Barn is reachable from a number of places under 30 min! We recommend Asbury Park for great accommodations with things to do or Freehold, if you'd like to be closest to the venue! All of these places are an easy Uber away. A number of people have decided to stay at The Asbury Hotel and we will most likely have a drink or two there afterwards. Hotel of Choice in Asbury The Asbury theasburyhotel.com or The Berkeley Oceanfront Hotel berkeleyhotelnj.com Freehold, NJ - 10 Min. Asbury Park, NJ - 25 Min. Belmair, NJ - 20 Min. Point Plesant, NJ - 25 Min. Long Branch, NJ - 30 Min. Red Bank, NJ - 30 Min.

Question

I am traveling by train from the city, how do I get to the Farm?

Answer

We recommend taking a train to Red Bank, NJ and taking an Uber from there. The Uber will take you about 30 minutes to arrive.

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