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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Monica Schaffstall and Joseph Copella
When in doubt, ask Monica (but check for the answer here first).
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by May 1st, 2026.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code is cocktail attire. Think polished and party-ready—perfect for a ballroom celebration. For men: A suit or dress pants with a blazer and a button-down shirt. Dress shoes, please—no sneakers. For women: Cocktail dresses, midi or knee-length dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or an elegant skirt and top combo.

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What are the dinner options?

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Our dinner is catered by Tappo. Filet and Chicken entrees are served with grilled asparagus spears and whipped yukon gold potatoes. Filet Mignon [DF | GF]: Perfectly seasoned with salt, pepper and fresh thyme. Char grilled and finished with red wine demi glace made from scratch. Chicken Marsala: Chicken breast cutlets, coated in seasoned flour and pan-seared. Braised in a savory blend of Marsala wine, cream, sautéed onions, garlic, wild mushrooms, and spinach. Finished with Pecorino cheese and garnished with fresh thyme and parsley. Vegetarian Option: Roasted Eggplant Stack: Freshly breaded eggplant piled high with mozzarella, Tappo’s vegetarian red sauce, topped with basil. Vegan Option: Grilled Portobello Mushroom Steak [V]: Balsamic marinated whole mushroom cap char grilled and served over a pureed fire roasted red pepper sauce.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Absolutely! Your health and comfort are important to us. Please include any dietary restrictions or allergies when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to accommodate you.

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Can I bring a date?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with all of our favorite people! If your invitation includes a “plus one,” their name will appear on your RSVP. If not, we’d love to celebrate with you solo this time. Thanks for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our reception will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off to relax, have fun, and celebrate with us!