FAQs
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When should I RSVP by? How do I RSVP?
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To help with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. The final deadline is March 20th, 2027. This will allow us to plan accordingly and let all of our vendors know a final head count. If we do not receive an RSVP from you by March 20th, we will assume that you are not attending. Please RSVP on our website. This will help us keep everything organized.
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Can I bring a date?
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We've worked hard to create an intimate celebration, so only the guests listed on your invitation are invited. If your invitation says "+1" or includes a guest's name, then yes - we would love for them to join!
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What should I do if I cant make it?
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We'll miss you! While we are sad that you won't be joining us for our celebration, we understand life can get busy. Please RSVP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 1:00 pm so we strongly recommend arriving 30 minutes early to park, find your seat, and settle in.
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What if I'm not Catholic?
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You are still welcome! We would still love for you to come celebrate this holy sacrament with us. We will have programs for you to follow along with during the mass. During the Eucharist, we invite you to come to the alter with your arms crossed to receive a blessing or remain in your seat. Please don't hesitate to ask us questions!
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Can I take pictures?
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We kindly ask to have an unplugged ceremony. In addition to respecting the sanctity of the church, we ask that you refrain from being on any devices during the ceremony and silence all cell phones. We have paid for a professional photographer and would be more than happy to share those images with you.
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Are kids welcome?
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If your kids are on the invite, then we would love for them to attend! If not, we encourage you to use this as a parents' night out!
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Is there a dress code?
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Our dress code is cocktail attire. Please wear cocktail dresses, dressy jumpsuits, and dark jackets and slacks. Please refrain from wearing white, ivory, or cream to allow the bride to shine in her dress. Since the ceremony will be in the Catholic Church, we encourage modesty (covered shoulders, at least knee-length hemlines, and modest tops). Feel free to bring a blazer, wrap, cardigan, or shawl to wear inside the church.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Please indicate this on your RSVP, we will make an effort to accommodate allergies.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, there is adequate self parking at both the church and the reception venue! There will not be a valet service at either location.
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Will transportation be provided?
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Unfortunately, no. We highly encourage you to schedule an Uber/Lyft/Ride Share, etc. ahead of time due to our venue's location.
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Are you registered? Where?
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We will have our registry linked on the "Registry" tab on our website. Our registry is rather small. While your presence is enough, if you wish to contribute to our next chapter, we would love a donation to our future home fund!
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! There will be beer and wine from 3-6pm during the cocktail hour and dinner. After dinner, we will extend the open bar with beer, wine, seltzer, and cocktails from 6-10pm. We want you to have the best time, so the drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you!
