FAQs

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When and where is the wedding?

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Our wedding ceremony and Nuptial Mass will take place at: Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception 524 E Lawrence Ave, Springfield, IL 62703 Following the ceremony, please join us for a reception featuring cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing at: Panther Creek Country Club 3001 Panther Creek Dr, Springfield, IL 62711

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Is there a dress code?

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Formal attire is requested. This means suits and ties for gentlemen, and long dresses or an elegant ensemble for ladies. Please note that this is a traditional celebration, and we kindly ask all guests to dress in a way that reflects the formality and significance of the occasion.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! We have a reserved room block at the President Abraham Lincoln Springfield – a DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel. Please visit the Travel & Accommodations section for booking details and the group code.

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Can I bring a date?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with our closest family and friends! Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation. If you were provided a plus one, it will be clearly indicated on your invitation by stating “and Guest”.

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Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love your little ones, we’re only able to include children of close family in our celebration. If your child is invited, it will be clearly indicated on your invitation by stating “& Family".

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Absolutely — we want all our guests to feel comfortable and cared for. Please indicate any dietary restrictions or allergies when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to accommodate your needs.

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When should I Rsvp by?

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Please RSVP by September 6, 2025

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The wedding ceremony and Nuptial Mass will begin promptly at 1:00 PM. Please plan to arrive 10–15 minutes early to allow time for seating and to ensure a smooth and reverent start to the celebration.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! If you’re local and plan to drive, parking is available at both the ceremony and reception venues. For the ceremony, a parking lot is located behind the Cathedral, accessible from Fifth Street. Guests should enter through the main doors on East Lawrence Avenue. For our out-of-town guests, shuttle service will be provided between the hotel and the reception. Please note: Shuttles will not be running for the ceremony. We kindly ask guests to walk or arrange their own transportation to the church.

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I'm not Catholic or have never been to a Catholic Mass — what should I expect?

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The ceremony will be a traditional Catholic wedding Mass, which typically lasts about an hour. There will be readings, prayers, music, and a short sermon (homily), followed by the exchange of vows. While there will be moments when Catholic guests may stand, kneel, or participate in Communion, you are not expected to participate in any part that feels unfamiliar or uncomfortable. Simply being present to support us means the world!

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What happens between the ceremony and the reception?

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There will be a brief break between the ceremony and reception — often called the “Catholic gap.” During this time, feel free to return to the hotel, explore Springfield’s historic sites, or grab a drink at one of our favorite local bars or breweries. You’ll find all our top recommendations on the Our Guide to Springfield page!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotel to the reception?

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We strongly encourage all guests to make use of the shuttle service or arrange alternate transportation—please do not drink and drive.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We are registered at Williams Sonoma and Bloomingdales. You can find all the details under the “Registry” tab!