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What happens at a Jewish wedding?

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G U I D E T O T H E W E D D I N G C E R E M O N Y KETUBAH Traditionally, the ketubah is a Jewish marriage contract written in the ancient language of Aramaic. Our ketubah highlights our commitment to building a home based on our love, traditions, and mutual respect for one another. It was signed before our wedding ceremony by three witnesses. CHUPPAH Our ceremony takes place under a wedding canopy held up by four posts, known as a chuppah. The chuppah symbolizes the home that we will create together in our married life. KIDDUSH (BLESSING OVER WINE) In Judaism, wine is a symbol of joy and celebration and, when blessed, sanctifies sacred moments. RING EXCHANGE The wedding ring is a symbol of perfection and eternity. Traditionally duriing the ceremony, the ring is placed on the index finger of the right hand that, according to ancient folklore, is thought to contain an artery that runs directly to the heart. SHEVA BRACHOT (SEVEN BLESSINGS) The Seven Blessings begin with a blessing over our second cup of wine. From there each blessing enlarges the circle to include not just us, but also the entire community- past, present and future. PRIESTLY BLESSINGS These blessings are part of both the Catholic and Jewish traditions and we have chosen to include them in our ceremony to honor both of our heritages. BREAKING OF THE GLASS We will end the ceremony by smashing a glass. Even in the midst of our joy, we remember the struggles in the world around us. We hope that the joy of this day and our love for each other will contribute to the healing of that brokenness. After the glass is smashed it is customary to yell "Mazel Tov!" (Congratulations and good luck!). YICHUD As soon as the ceremony is over, we will share our first moments as a married couple alone celebrating & reflecting!