FAQs

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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If the weather cooperates, we’ll say “I do” outdoors. Cocktail hour will flow inside and out, and then we’ll head indoors for dinner and dancing.

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What should I wear to the welcome party?

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Easy, comfortable summer attire - think sundresses, linen, or anything you’d wear to a relaxed party by the water. There will be a few light bites in addition to cocktails. Can’t wait to see you!

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What should I wear to the wedding?

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We would love to see our friends and family dressed up with us! Our dress code is cocktail formal. Suits, dress shirts with slacks, pantsuits, jumpsuits, or dresses (knee-length to floor-length) are all perfect. Early June on the Cape can be warm, but being by the water means you might catch a sea breeze, so wear something you’ll feel comfortable in. Neutral tones, soft textures, and romantic details are especially lovely. Just no white, please!

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to arrive by 5:30 PM so everyone has ample time to settle in before the ceremony begins promptly at 6:00 PM.

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Is there parking available at the venue?

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Yes, there will be parking available at the venue.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us but the hangover is on you - so get ready to party!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by April 15, 2026 (the sooner the better!). This helps us plan for both the Welcome Party and the Wedding, especially food choices. If we don’t hear from you by then, we’ll sadly assume you can’t make it.

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What do I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed! If you are unable to make it to the wedding please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "decline" so we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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When you type in your name on the RSVP page, everyone in your party (including your plus-one, if you have one) will pop up. If something looks off, or if you think we forgot someone, just let us know!

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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During the ceremony, we’d love for you to be fully present with us. Please tuck your phones away and soak in the moment! We’ll have a photographer capturing everything, and we’ll pause for a quick “photo moment” so you can snap a shot or two. After that, once cocktail hour kicks off, feel free to take photos and videos.

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Do you have hotel recommendations or a room block?

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A block of rooms has been reserved at the wedding venue, The Lighthouse Inn. As availability is limited, we encourage guests to contact the hotel directly and mention the Mintz–Fletcher wedding when making reservations. If rooms are no longer available, or if you prefer alternative accommodations, we’ve included additional hotel options nearby on the Travel tab.

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Is either Julia or Kyle changing their names?

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No! We will both be keeping our last names.