FAQs

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So, about the tornado

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Our friends and family in St. Louis are all safe and housed, which is what matters the most. For the most part our venue and vendors have not been affected and we will be continuing ahead as planned. Some aspects of our schedule may have to change due to the impact of the tornado, but time will tell exactly what that will look like. Please, please come to this beautiful city and support the local economy.

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Where are you registered?

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UPDATE: On May 16th, 2025, a tornado ripped through the heart of St. Louis, killing 5 and upending the lives of thousands. In lieu of gifts to the couple we are asking that you donate (be it time, money, skills, supplies, etc) to recovery efforts in the bride's beloved hometown. It would be especially meaningful if you would direct resources towards the most vulnerable communities affected by this disaster. Please visit the Registry page to find links to organizations working to make sure none of our neighbors go without support.

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Are children allowed?

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Yes! However we do have a limited number of children who are likely to attend, so there will not be childcare or child-specific entertainment provided.

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Are dogs/cats/parrots/lizards allowed?

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Unfortunately, due to the rules of the venue, you'll have to leave your pet friends at home.

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What should I wear?

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The attire is black-tie optional. Bold and dramatic looks are encouraged. The attendants will be wearing shades of purple. The bride will not be wearing white, but it's after Labor Day so neither should you.