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Update: We’ve made the difficult decision to cancel our wedding due to the COVID-19 outbreak. We wish you and your loved ones health and safety during this time, and thank you for your understanding.
Update: We’ve made the difficult decision to cancel our wedding due to the COVID-19 outbreak. We wish you and your loved ones health and safety during this time, and thank you for your understanding.
October 31, 2020
Palm Desert, California
#Tobolacey

LACEY & MICHAEL

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Michael Tobolowsky

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Lacey Arrington

#Tobolacey

October 31, 2020

Palm Desert, California

How They Met

If at first you don't succeed, try again!

Michael and Lacey met, wait for it.... online. Specifically, the 2 met via the ever exclusive Bumble app. But hold on because this story has a slight twist (by that, we mean it's very embarrassing to Michael and hilarious to Lacey). After matching on the "girls must message first" app, Lacey showed her initial interest by sending a cleverly written, "hi". But I guess that's how easy it is for girls like Lacey because boy, Michael. was. hooked. The two met in person for the first time at Honor Bar in Highland Park Village on a Tuesday night for drinks, and this is where it gets exciting (for Lacey). See, Michael was not quite himself. He was very nervous, shy and a bit (ok, a lot) awkward. He stumbled over himself to answer simple first date questions such as, "What do you and your friends do for fun on the weekends?" - which Michael responded with a soft, "Umm, putt-putt. I love putt-putt." In Michael's defense, who doesn't? But perhaps a bit of a strange #1 hobby for a 32 year old man to have, especially since 2.5 years later Lacey has never once seen him play golf of any form. As the night ended, Michael walked Lacey to her car, and walking backwards towards his nearly got run over (embarrassing). A second date was not exactly obvious, BUT... Michael wasn't ready to give up just yet. Michael asked Lacey for a second date and she miraculously said yes! Here, Michael "totally redeemed himself"! AND it only gets better. It wasn't until they met for brunch on the third date, with Michael dressed in gym clothes, that Lacey realized Michael was actually the "tall sexy bearded man" she had a crush on from her gym. Unbeknownst to Michael, Lacey had been giving him elevator eyes 4-5 days a week for the past 2 years. Finally, Michael *still* didn't have the upper hand, and now, never will. But if he knows one thing, it's that he loves Lacey, so he's okay with that. Oh, and yeah, she loves him too. Lots. THE END.

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