We both had just ended long term relationship with our children's parents. He was not looking for anything serious and neither was I. Playing around online lead us to one another. He had been sending messages for a week complimenting me, telling me how attractive he taught I was. Well, I kept deleting them, meeting someone new was scary for me. A few days go by, he messaged me asking "Why I had not responded to any of his previous messages? Why was I even on the site if I didn't want to communicate and meet anyone? And when was I going to let him meet me?" I said to myself, "this man is persistent, surely if he interested for real the Lord would give me a sign". I responded, telling him that I was new to dating and that I was sort of shy about meeting new people. He responded back, and asked if I could swim? Of all the things he could have asked me he asked me that; which happened to be one of my favorite past time hobbies. Little did he know that was the way to my heart. I told him yes, and pretty much, we have been together ever since our first date....