FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by 1 April 2026. We want to ensure that we have a final headcount in a timely manner. If you do not RSVP by this time, your seat and food cannot be guaranteed. You are welcome to RSVP as early as receiving your save the date. Brady and Mikayla are beyond excited to have you celebrating with them!
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Can I bring a date?
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We have specified the invited guests on the invitation. Other indications of additional guests were labeled as "and family" or "and guest". However, we may have some wiggle room for additional guests when we get a better idea of who is able to attend who was initially invited. Please feel free to reach out to Mikayla closer to the wedding date if you would like to bring a plus-one! We will be arranging a seating chart due to the designated number of tables and chairs ,so please reach out no later than 1 April 2026 to allow us enough time to work out the seating chart accordingly. Mikayla: (937) 623-7178
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Are kids welcome?
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We love your children and are so happy to celebrate with the ones included on the invitation. While we wish we could extend the invitation to all of our guests children, we are keeping the celebration limited and can only accommodate those specified on your invitation. We are hoping you use this opportunity as a date night. I hope you are still able to join us in celebration and use it as a date night!
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What is on the menu?
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For cocktail hour, we are doing a soft pretzel bar with various dips. For dinner, we are doing a buffet style BBQ dinner with your choice of Pulled Pork or Pulled Chicken with sides including Potato Salad, Cole Slaw, Baked Beans, Mac n Cheese, Green Beans, Salad and Mashed Potatoes. There will be water, soft drinks and an open bar available.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Absolutely! Please reach out to Mikayla (937)623-7178 and let her know your allergy and accommodations will be made.
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Is there a dress code?
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While there is no specific dress code for the venue, please come dressed in Garden Attire. This usually consists of lighter colors typically worn in spring or summer. Some examples are long dresses/ sundresses, florals, dresses shirts or polos in lighter hues. You do not need to wear a suit. Please do not wear white or anything that is categorized as white. White is reserved for the Bride. Here is a pinterest board of ideas if you are unsure of what to wear: https://pin.it/2BE3x2U3g
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Will the ceremony be outside or in the barn?
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We are hoping the weather is beautiful so we can have a ceremony outside just beyond the barn. If the weather does not permit us to be outdoors, we will hold the ceremony on the second level of the barn. The reception will be inside the barn with cocktail hour, dinner and drinks downstairs while tables, chairs and dance floor will be upstairs.
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Can we take pictures during the ceremony?
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We ask that you honor our unplugged ceremony. This means no phones, cameras or tablets during the ceremony. Our photographer is a professional and will capture the moment. Once cocktail hour and the reception begins, please take all the pictures you desire.