FAQs

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What is the venue address?

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Such and Such Farm 13703 Fandel Drive De Soto, MO 63020

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How far is the venue from St. Louis?

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Depending on which area of St. Louis you are coming from, Such and Such Farm is between a 45 min - 1.25 hour drive.

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What's the dress code?

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Come as you wish--so long as you feel good, we feel good! We will be dressed up ;) This is definitely not a formal wedding, but cocktail or semi-formal attire would certainly fit the bill. **IMPORTANT NOTE: The grounds around the ceremony & reception area are largely gravel and grass, so we strongly recommend comfortable, practical shoes (flats ftw! but a low block heel may be manageable as well). While there will be a couple of bonfires for warming up after sunset, you may wish to bring a jacket depending on the slightly unpredictable nature of mid-October Midwest temps :)

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Are my kids invited?

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Our wedding celebration will be an adults-only event outside of immediate family. We completely understand if this complicates whether you can attend; please feel free to reach out to us if this is the case!

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What's the deal with the venue?

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Such and Such Farm is a working, family-run, sustainable farm located just outside of the St. Louis metro area (St. Louisans may be familiar with their name from the TGS Farmer's Market). Their in-house hospitality company, Homie Hospitality, focuses on live-fire cooking using ingredients raised and grown on the farm (check out their farm dinner series, open to the public!): https://www.homiehospitality.com/events TasteMakers did an excellent feature on Such and Such if you'd like to check out what they're all about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-egjV4RUbRc We ask that everyone conducts themselves responsibly and with respect for the property and grounds, and to treat the venue as you would your own home.

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So...can they accommodate my dietary restrictions?

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Yes! When it's time to RSVP, please let us know anyone in your party who has Vegetarian, Vegan and/or Gluten-Free needs.

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When can I RSVP?

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RSVPs are now open, just click on over to the 'RSVP' page here on our wedding site! Kindly RSVP no later than August 1