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Michelle & Sebastian

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Michelle Malz

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Sebastian Ruszczyk

August 31, 2024

New Britain, CT

Our Love Story

Michelle and Sebastian met when they were 13 years old while they attended Polish Language School. Through polish school, they would see each other every weekend which meant eating lunch at the same lunch table, going on field trips to Philly and even skipped school together (only once). In 8th grade, polish school ended but their friendship didn't. Although they didn't go to the same high school, they maintained their friendship on weekends at parties and Polanka with friends. As they matured, their feelings deepened, culminating in Sebastian's bold move at one of Michelle's parties. However, their budding romance faced a hurdle when Sebastian went to Poland for the summer, putting their relationship on hold. Despite their efforts to reignite the flame upon his return, circumstances led them to drift apart, not crossing paths again for almost a decade. Their reunion, seemingly orchestrated by fate, occurred in 2019 when Sebastian's grandmother was having surgery at the Bone and Joint Institute, where Michelle worked as a nurse. Michelle had no idea she was his grandma and was asked to be her nurse because they both spoke polish. Their unexpected encounter sparked a brief reunion, but once again, life pulled them in separate directions. Flash forward 4 years to January 2023. Sebastian decided to write to Michelle on instagram to see how she was doing (he slid into the DMs). Shortly after rekindling their connection, they went on a memorable first date to Five Churches Brewery, where three hours felt like mere minutes. Despite Sebastian's certainty, Michelle remained cautious, unsure if their bond was more than a rekindling of old friendship. Sebastian, determined, continued to pursue Michelle, his persistence paying off during a walk at the West Hartford Reservoir. After their walk, Sebastian walked to his car, grabbed a rose and thanked Michelle for going on a walk with him. As Michelle drove home, she stared at the rose and started to reconsider their relationship from years prior. A few days later, Sebastian took Michelle on another date to Tao and mini golf. After this date, they both realized that their relationship was meant to be, and they knew they wanted to officially give it a try. Michelle and Sebastian found themselves increasingly drawn to each other's company. They moved in together, shared conversations about life, their aspirations, and the highs and lows they experienced, gradually becoming each other's best friends. In November 2023, Michelle had made plans to celebrate her 30th birthdays in Mexico. Unbeknownst to Michelle, Sebastian had chosen this trip as the perfect moment to propose. With Michelle's family and friends present and the stunning views of Cancun setting the scene, Sebastian meticulously planned the proposal. He ensured everything was in place, including having Michelle's sister Veronica assist with transportation of the ring and one of Michelle’s best friends- Monika with decorations. Upon their arrival at the resort, Sebastian discreetly coordinated the final details, ensuring Michelle remained unaware of his intentions. Despite Sebastian's efforts to keep his plan under wraps, Michelle couldn't help but notice his unusual behavior that day. As the sun began to set, Sebastian led Michelle to the rooftop of the hotel, where their loved ones awaited. The rooftop was adorned with rose petals, pictures of the couple, and romantic music filled the air. With the stage set, Sebastian knelt down and asked Michelle to marry him. Overwhelmed with joy, Michelle accepted, and they began celebrating the beginning of their new chapter together.

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