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Welcome! We are so excited to celebrate our wedding with you! This site is your go-to for all the details about our wedding—schedule, travel info, registry and more. We’re so grateful to share this special time with you and can’t wait to celebrate together!
Welcome! We are so excited to celebrate our wedding with you! This site is your go-to for all the details about our wedding—schedule, travel info, registry and more. We’re so grateful to share this special time with you and can’t wait to celebrate together!

The Future Rutledges

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Are children allowed at the wedding?

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While we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding an adult-only event, with the exception of children who are specifically mentioned on the invitation. We hope this allows you to enjoy the evening and celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We are excited to celebrate our special day with our closest family and friends. Due to limited space, we kindly ask that only those guests whose names are specifically listed on the invitation attend.

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Where are you registered?

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We are registered at Zola for a Honeymoon and Future Fund. Rather than a traditional gift registry, we’re inviting contributions to help us celebrate our honeymoon and support this exciting new chapter in our lives. We are so grateful for your generosity and love!

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what is the dress code?

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Our dress code for the Wedding is Black-Tie Optional. For women, a floor-length gown, elegant cocktail dress, formal midi dress or jumpsuit works perfectly. For men, a dark suit or tuxedo works perfectly. Think elevated evening wear - something you'd wear to a fancy gala or upscale event. Our dress code for the Welcome Party is Dressy Casual. For women, think dresses, skirts, jumpsuits, or nice pants with a blouse, plus a jacket or wrap for the evening chill. For men, think button-downs or sweaters with chinos or dark jeans, and a light jacket or sport coat to stay warm.

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How do I RSVP?

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Once our official invitations go out, you will be able to RSVP by navigating to the RSVP section on this website (it will be visible then). Follow the prompts to confirm your attendance and select your meal preferences. Instructions on how to RSVP will also be included in the official wedding invitation.

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What date should i RSVP by?

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Please check back for this information.

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Are there any nearby hotels you recommend?

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We will have a hotel room block at C. Baldwin Curio Collection by Hilton. This hotel is located 2 miles from the venue. Please refer to the Travel section for more information.

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What time should I arrive to the Ceremony?

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We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes before the ceremony begins to ensure you have plenty of time to find your seat and get settled.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes, the Astorian offers valet parking.

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