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How do I RSVP?

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You can RSVP by navigating to the RSVP section on this website. Follow the prompts to confirm your attendance and select your meal preferences. Instructions on how to RSVP will also be included in the official wedding invitation.

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What date should i RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by January 7th, 2026.

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Are children allowed at the wedding?

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While we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding an adult-only event, with the exception of children who are specifically mentioned on the invitation/in the wedding. We hope this allows you time to enjoy the evening and celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We are excited to celebrate our special day with our closest family and friends. Due to limited space, we kindly ask that only those guests whose names are specifically listed on the invitation attend.

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what is the dress code?

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Our dress code for the Wedding is Black-Tie Optional. For women, a floor-length gown, elegant cocktail dress, formal midi dress or jumpsuit works perfectly. For men, a dark suit or tuxedo works perfectly. Think elevated evening wear - something you'd wear to a fancy gala or upscale event. Our dress code for the Welcome Party is Dressy Casual. For women, think dresses, skirts, or jumpsuits. For men, think button-downs or sweaters with chinos or dark jeans, and a light jacket or sport coat to stay warm.

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Are there any nearby hotels you recommend?

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We will have a hotel room block at C. Baldwin Curio Collection by Hilton. This hotel is located 2 miles from the venue. Please refer to the Travel section for more information.

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What time should I arrive to the Ceremony?

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We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes before the ceremony begins to ensure you have plenty of time to find your seat and get settled.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes, the Astorian offers valet parking.

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