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Welcome! We are so excited to celebrate our wedding with you! This site is your go-to for all the details about our wedding—schedule, travel info, registry and more. We’re so grateful to share this special time with you and can’t wait to celebrate together!
Welcome! We are so excited to celebrate our wedding with you! This site is your go-to for all the details about our wedding—schedule, travel info, registry and more. We’re so grateful to share this special time with you and can’t wait to celebrate together!

The Future Rutledges

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Are children allowed at the wedding?

Answer

While we love your little ones, we have decided to keep our wedding an adult-only event, with the exception of children who are specifically mentioned on the invitation. We hope this allows you to enjoy the evening and celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

We are excited to celebrate our special day with our closest family and friends. Due to limited space, we kindly ask that only those guests whose names are specifically listed on the invitation attend.

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what is the dress code?

Answer

Our dress code for the wedding is Black-Tie Optional. For women, a floor-length gown, elegant cocktail dress, formal midi dress or jumpsuit works perfectly. For men, a dark suit or tuxedo works perfectly. Think elevated evening wear - something you'd wear to a fancy gala or upscale event.

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How do I RSVP?

Answer

Once our official invitations go out, you will be able to RSVP by navigating to the RSVP section on this website (it will be visible then). Follow the prompts to confirm your attendance and select your meal preferences. Instructions on how to RSVP will also be included in the official wedding invitation.

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What date should i RSVP by?

Answer

TBD.

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Where are you registered?

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We are registered at Zola. In the Registry section, you will find our gift registry. We appreciate your generosity and look forward to celebrating with you.

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Are there any nearby hotels you recommend?

Answer

We will have a hotel room block at Hotel Icon. This hotel is located 3 miles from the venue. We have secured a special rate for our guests. Once ready, please refer to the Travel section for more information.

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What time should I arrive to the Ceremony?

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We recommend arriving at least 30 minutes before the ceremony begins to ensure you have plenty of time to find your seat and get settled.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

Answer

Yes, the Astorian offers valet parking.

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