We've known each other for years at church. I would always address him as "Brother Ken" and he would always call me "Sister Michelle". One day he invited me and few other people from the church to his birthday party at a steppers set. He asked me to dance with him. He held my hand all the way to the dance floor. Even though I thought I was a pretty good dancer, I didn't know how to Chicago step. However, it didn't matter. Ken held me close and guided me the entire time. Even though one might think that we were just dancing, he was teaching me how it would feel to be in a relationship with him. I experienced security, encouragement, fun and the start of real Godly love! We danced a few times with each other and then the night was over. I could barely sleep that night. I couldn't wait to see him at church, the following day. Our eyes met and we both smiled at each other. Later on that afternoon, he officially asked me out!