FAQs

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP no later than September 1, 2023.

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Can I bring a date?

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Please do not bring a guest unless they are specifically named on your invitation or identified in the RSVP section on the website.

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Are children allowed at the wedding?

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We love your kids, however, all wedding events on Saturday are adults-only. Your little ones are more than welcome to join us for brunch on Sunday! Thank you for understanding.

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Is there a dress code?

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Formal attire, please!

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What's the transportation and parking situation?

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There is ample free parking in the lot directly in front of the venue. However, we strongly recommend using a rideshare service.

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What's the weather like in San Jose?

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Early October, it is still warm during the daytime, with temperatures dropping mildly at night. Though the reception will be indoors, we recommend bringing a sweater or light jacket to be safe.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will start at 4:00pm sharp. We ask that you arrive at least 10-15 minutes early to park, take your seat and enjoy live music.

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Can I take pictures during the wedding?

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Please refrain from taking any photos during the ceremony. Once we finish the "I dos," you can take all the photos you want during cocktail hour and reception!

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Is the event indoor or outdoor?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors and the reception will be indoors.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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YES! As a fellow food allergy sufferer, Michele is very sympathetic to this. Please let us know of any allergies with your RSVP and/or reach out to Ben or Michele directly.

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Will Steve be at the wedding?

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We love our boy, Steve, but he will not be in attendance. He booked a tee time that same day at Pebble Beach that he refuses to give up.