FAQs

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What is the dress code for the wedding?

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Cocktail attire. No jeans. In order to preserve the mansion floors, guests of the mansion are discouraged from wearing spiky heels.

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Where should I stay?

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We have booked a number of rooms with discounted rates at the Fairfield Inn & Suites Tulsa Downtown Arts District. We also recommend Hotel Indigo (ask for the "wedding rate" for 15% off each night of your stay). For more information, see the Travel tab. There are also a lot of other hotels in the Tulsa downtown area that would be the same distance from the wedding venue. Booking with Airbnb is a good option for rental houses.

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How do I RSVP for the wedding?

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Go to the RSVP tab in this wedding website. Enter your first and last name and click CONTINUE. Find your name in the list and click SELECT. Click either WILL ATTEND or WILL NOT ATTEND and answer the remaining questions to RSVP for each person in your party.

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What date should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 1, 2023.

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Weather permitting the outdoor courtyard will be used for the ceremony and dance portions of the evening. There are indoor areas of the mansion that will be accessible to guests throughout the evening and will be where dinner is served.

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Am I allowed to bring my children?

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Yes.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

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If you were not able to RSVP for a plus-one on the RSVP tab and you would like to RSVP for a plus-one, please contact either Michael or Samantha.

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Will there be alcohol served during the wedding reception?

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Yes, an open bar will be provided at the wedding reception. Alcohol will be available for guests over the age of 21. Guests will be required to show a valid form of identification (for example, a driver's license) to the bartenders in order to be served alcohol on the venue's premises. Bartenders can accept tips in cash.

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Will a dinner be served at the wedding reception?

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Yes. Oliveto Italian restaurant will be catering the dinner during the wedding reception. Various pasta dishes will be served, buffet-style. Vegan and vegetarian options will be provided. Please indicate any dietary restrictions in your RSVP.

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Will there be dancing at the wedding reception?

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YES!!!

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Where should we bring or send our wedding gift?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, see the Registry tab in this website. A wedding card box will be available at the wedding reception.