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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Autum Merkow and Michael Crock
If you have any other questions, please feel free to reach out!
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please kindly RSVP by July 8th, 2026!

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How do I RSVP?

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You can click the RSVP tab above and RSVP at any time. We will also include a paper RSVP card with the invitation for those who prefer to mail their RSVP back to us!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space at our venue, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a plus one, their name will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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Are children welcome?

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We love your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only event, with the exception of a few close family members. We encourage you to use this as a date night, to come out and have fun!

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What is the dress code?

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The attire for our celebration is black-tie / black-tie optional. We kindly invite guests to wear formal, all-black attire. Suggested attire for women includes floor-length gowns or elegant tea-length dresses in black, paired with neutral or black shawls/jackets if desired. Men are encouraged to wear black suits or tuxedos, with or without a tie. Please no jeans! If you have any questions, shoot one of us a text!

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Will the wedding take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and reception will both be held indoors but our cocktail hour will be mostly outdoors. We know it will be toasty, but don't worry, we provide as many cooling comforts as we see fit!

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What time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony will begin at 6:30pm! To ensure you will have time to park and find a seat, please arrive by 6:00pm.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We are having an unplugged ceremony (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". There will be one moment during the ceremony when guests will be invited to take a photo, but otherwise, our amazing photographer has it covered!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! Beer, wine, specialty cocktails, and non-alcoholic beverages are all on us.

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What if I don't RSVP on time?

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If you are unable to RSVP by the deadline, you will be marked as "not attending". We would love celebrating with you; however, we must provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVP's. Unfortunately, this means we cannot accommodate guests who have not RSVP’d—there will be no seating, food, or drink available for unlisted attendees.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will definitely be missed! If you cannot attend, please mark "WILL NOT attend" on your RSVP so we can plan accordingly. If you have already RSVP'd "Attending" but later find that you cannot make it, please notify us as soon as possible.

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What is the order of events?

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Ceremony: 6:30pm - 7:00pm Cocktail hour: 7:00pm - 8:00pm Dinner: 8:00pm - 9:00pm Dancing: 9:00pm - 11:00pm Grand exit: 11:00pm - 11:30pm