FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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Our wedding is a formal event, with the natural beauty of the Outer Banks as our backdrop. Think coastal elegance For Women: Tea length, midi, full length dresses, or elegant jumpsuits are all perfect choices. We recommend block heels, wedges, or dressy sandals as some parts of the day may be on grass. If you wish to avoid matching the wedding party, please note they will be in light blue and sage green. For Men: A suit or dress slacks with a button down and blazer is ideal. A tie is optional but encouraged for the ceremony. Light, breathable fabrics like linen or cotton are great choices for the coastal climate. Please note: While we want everyone to look sharp, we also want you to feel comfortable and enjoy the evening —no tuxedos or ball gowns necessary but we’d love to see everyone dressed up!

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What should I wear to welcome drinks?

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Beach Attire: Beachy and relaxed! Think resort-style outfits that are comfortable for a casual evening. Sundresses, breezy fabrics, and coastal colors or patterns are great for women, paired with wedges, flats, or sandals. For men, linen shirts, Hawaiian shirts, and linen or khaki pants/shorts work well, along with loafers or sandals.

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Can I bring a guest or my children?

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Due to space limitations, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on your invitation/rsvp. However, we understand that families are growing and some may have infants who need to be with their parents. If you have an infant (under the age of one,) please contact the bride or groom so we can plan accordingly for them. Thank you for your understanding and we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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When and where is the wedding?

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The wedding will be located at The Sanderling Resort in Duck, North Carolina on September 18, 2026. Please check our travel page for more information about The Sanderling and hotel block.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive between 4:00pm and 4:15pm for our 4:30pm ceremony.

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Will the ceremony and reception be outdoors?

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Weather permitting, the ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors. Our reception will be indoors. Please take this into consideration when choosing your outfit.

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Can we take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask guests to keep phones away during the ceremony so our photographer can capture the magic. We promise to share ceremony photos with everyone. Please take as many photos as you like during cocktail hour and the reception!

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What should I do if I have a dietary restriction?

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Let us know when you RSVP, and we’ll make sure you’re well taken care of.