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Update: Due to COVID-19, we’ve decided to postpone our wedding date. Your health and safety are always our top priority. We’ll keep you posted about our new plans, and look forward to celebrating together!
Update: Due to COVID-19, we’ve decided to postpone our wedding date. Your health and safety are always our top priority. We’ll keep you posted about our new plans, and look forward to celebrating together!

Merry & Alex

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Can I bring my child(ren)?

Answer

Unfortunately not. We are kindly requesting you leave your children at home as this is an adult occasion only. (Even if they are tiny babies.)

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

If your invitation has a plus one you may bring one. If not, only you are invited. This will be an assigned seated event, so please be respectful of who is listed on the invitation. If you have any questions about who is invited, feel free to text Merry at 417-306-6292.

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Is there an open bar?

Answer

A variety of Beer, Wine, and Champagne will be provided at no cost, along with a signature cocktail. We have also purchased enough Wild Turkey to satisfy your hearts content of taking wedding shots. Good thing for you, shots are absolutely allowed so there's no need to try and disguise your drink as a "whiskey neat". Other specialty drinks/hard liquor options will be available through a cash bar.

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What should I wear?

Answer

We have the dress code listed as black-tie optional so that if people would like to dress up, they can! This is very loose. Wear your favorite suit, wear your favorite tux. Wear your favorite cocktail dress or take it a notch further and wear a floor length gown. Don't wear jeans and a t-shirt, but wear your favorite nice looking outfit that makes you feel your best.

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Is smoking allowed?

Answer

Smoking/vaping is not allowed in the building. You will need to exit the venue and smoke outside if you would like.

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