We have our registry items on Zola. These can also be found on their individual websites at Fragile Gifts Atlanta, Williams Sonoma and Pottery Barn. The Fragile registry can be found at https://www.fragilegifts.com/registry.cfm/25840/Skulkety_Merritt/March-13-2021 and all others can be searched on their websites using our names.
It is "Black Tie Optional" also referred to as formal. This typically means men can wear a tuxedo, but it is not a requirement. If they choose to not wear a tuxedo, they should wear a formal dark suit and tie instead. Women can go the long evening gown route, but a dressy suit or shorter cocktail dress is fine too.