Dress for the restaurant is casual. Jeans are perfectly good for this meal. Tom will be in a button down or polo and jeans, while Melissa will be in a dress with a jean-jacket over it.
Our wedding will have a cocktail attire dress code. Jacket for the gentlemen, tie optional. Ladies, a cocktail dress or nice pants and top will work. We will be taking family photos and the color pallet of the wedding is jewel tones like deep greens, burgundy, navy blues, etc.