FAQs

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Sooo....This is my first gay wedding. What should I expect?

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Glitter, rainbows, and drag queens! And if you're lucky, you might get to ride a unicorn! Sorry to get your hopes up, but NONE of those things will be present at this shindig. Instead, you should expect something quite familiar -- except there are two brides and no groom. Of course, we'll have some personal touches, but nothing so dramatic that it'll have your grandmother clutching her pearls.

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Where do I park my car?

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Our venue has plenty of parking and an overflow lot within walking distance just in case.

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So, what's for dinner?

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Hors d’oeuvres: Fig and prosciutto flatbread & Tomato basil soup shooter with mini grilled cheese sandwiches Salad: Bacon and bleu cheese, mixed greens and balsamic dressing. (Bacon on the side) Dinner roll assortment Entrees: Southern Shrimp and grits & Roasted herb crusted pork loin with mango chutney Sides: Smashed sweet potatoes & Southern green beans Dessert: Vanilla wedding cake & assorted cupcakes

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Do I have to pay for my drinks?

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Nope. We have an open bar that includes wine, beer and spirits....and a photographer so please enjoy responsibly or you may be the subject of memes for years to come.

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Can I bring a guest?

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Well that depends...Our venue is very small ,and we want to include as many friends and family as possible. Unless your invitation is addressed to you and a guest, please bring only yourself and positive vibes. Feel free to mix and mingle with other guests -- we promise they don't bite (well, promise is a strong word).

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Open bar you say? What if I have one drink too many?

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Please see our "Travel" section for a list of nearby hotels. And call an Uber!

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What should I wear?

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We do not have a dress code. However, our ceremony is outside, but the reception is inside. So, bring your comfortable dancing shoes (and maybe a jacket). We have a coat check.

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Can I bring my kids?

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Although we love your children dearly, please use this opportunity to support your local economy and hire a babysitter. So, in other words, please leave your little ones at home.

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What if I have diet restrictions or food allergies?

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Please let us know ahead of time and we will work with our caterer to accommodate your needs.

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Where are you registered?

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Please visit our registry page for gift ideas.

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How can I still be a part of your special day if I am unable to attend the wedding?

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While we'd love for you to be a part of our big day, we understand if you cannot attend. We will live stream our wedding ceremony on Zoom. Stay tuned for the link and additional details about how to attend virtually.

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Will this event be socially distanced?

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No. We had hoped by the time of our fiesta that our world would have reached the final stage of "new normal". While we are not there yet, many guests will be vaccinated, and we will provide ample hand sanitizer and other necessary items to combat germs. It is a small venue, so if you don't feel comfortable, don't worry--we completely understand. Remember you can always participate virtually via the live stream of the ceremony.