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December 19, 2021
Temecula, CA
#elmerandmellyy

Melissa & Elmer

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When are RSVPS due ?

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Please RSVP no later than November 15

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What time will the event start?

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The event will commence at 4 pm. Please arrive 30 minutes or less prior to the event start time. Time: 4pm- 9pm

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Do I have to wear a mask ?

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That is completely up to you we are not going to enforce them. We don’t have a problem with people not wearing them but if you feel more comfortable in doing so please feel free too.

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Can I bring a plus one ?

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The guest list is limited and seats are reserved for individuals we personally invited and whose names are stated on the invitations sent out. We kindly ask you to bring no extra guests. If you are thinking about bringing a plus one, please feel free to contact us to discuss it. We need to be made aware to make sure everyone has a seat and they need to be approved by us first, considering we are trying to keep our wedding as intimate as possible. We appreciate your understanding!

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What’s the dress code ?

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Business Casual/ Cocktail: suits (ties optional) and party dresses. Ladies please consider the weather since the wedding will be in December it might be a little chilly outside.

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Where will the ceremony/ reception take place ?

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The ceremony and the reception will be held at the same venue. The ceremony will take place outside and guests will head indoors for the reception.

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What happens after the ceremony ?

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After the ceremony the bridal party will be taking pictures nearby for around an hour. Guests can head straight to the reception hall where food and beverages will be served.

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What should I do if I can’t make it ?

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You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “no,” so we can plan accordingly. We understand life happens. Please feel free to check the registry and send a gift if possible 😄

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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media ?

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Yes, we encourage our guests to post pictures on to their social media channels, our only request is that you tag each photo with our wedding hashtag #elmerandmellyy so we can keep track of all of your pictures! 😄

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Will there be any vegan/vegetarian/gluten free/special diet options?

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Unfortunately not.

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Can I wear white?

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Please refrain from wearing all white in order to give the Bride her time to shine.

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Will alcohol be served ?

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Wine, champagne and beer will be served. It will be an unlimited open bar. ID may be requested for any person desiring to drink alcoholic beverages on the premises. No open liquor can be removed from Falkner Winery.

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Is smoking allowed?

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A location will be designated for the smoking of cigars/ cigarettes as desired.

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What type of food will be served ?

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Your food will be served on white dinnerware with silver flatware and glassware. We will update on selections that will be served once they have been chosen by the Bride and Groom.

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Is there someone I can contact if I have any other questions about the wedding?

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Absolutely! Please feel free to contact the Bride or the Groom if you have any further questions!

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Will there be parking ?

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There will be plenty of parking at the top of the hill the venue is located on.

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