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Q & A

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How do I RSVP?

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Please RSVP via the website. You can also text us individually if you have trouble with the website!

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What if I don’t RSVP in time?

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If you do not RSVP by August 1st 2026, you will be marked as ‘not attending.’ We would love celebrating with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVP’s. (This will mean you are not allowed to show up to our wedding day. There will be no seating, food, or drink accommodations for you.)

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Can I bring a plus one or other family members?

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This will be listed in your wedding invite and in the RSVP section. Please do not assume that you have a plus one as unfortunately we have to abide to a certain capacity/limit.

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Can I bring my kids

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Due to venue capacity limitations, we are only able to accommodate children participating in the wedding ceremony. We truly appreciate your understanding and cannot wait to celebrate with you.

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Is there a dress code?

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Dress code is Garden Party Formal. We’d love for guests to have fun with it and wear the outfit they’ve been dying to wear. Think romantic, elevated, colorful, and elegant. We just kindly ask that guests avoid wearing white, ivory, champagne or light cream color attire. The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors at Dresser Mansion. Please keep this in mind when choosing your shoes, as portions of the venue include grass, brick, and outdoor walkways. Oklahoma weather can also be a little unpredictable and occasionally WINDY, so keep that in mind when choosing your outfit for the evening!

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Where do I fly into?

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For guests traveling in, the closest airport is Tulsa International Airport, which is about 15-20 minutes from the venue.

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I am visiting from out of town, what can I do while I'm here?

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If you’re visiting from out of town and looking for things to do while you’re here, please visit the things to do tab at the top of the website for local recommendations, favorite spots, and things to explore during your stay!

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Can I stay outside the wedding hotel?

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Yes! You are more than welcome to stay elsewhere if you’d prefer.

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Is there parking onsite?

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Limited street parking is available near The Dresser Mansion, along with access to the private lot on 18th Street and the Parks & Beard Law Firm parking lot. Guests are encouraged to allow extra time for parking and transportation prior to the ceremony.

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How can I contribute to your honeymoon fund?

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The greatest gift of all is your presence on our special day! However, should you wish to contribute to our honeymoon or view our registry, please click the Registry tab at the top of the website. Wedding cards can also be dropped in the card box at the reception.

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Is there a hotel block?

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We do not have a formal hotel block reserved. We will be staying at Home2 Suites Tulsa Hills and would love for guests to join us there if they’d like. Transportation to and from the venue will be provided for guests staying at Home2 Suites Tulsa Hills and the Hampton Inn & Suites Tulsa/Tulsa Hills. Both hotels are located next to each other and share the same parking lot.

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What time should I arrive to there ceremony?

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Guests may begin arriving at 2:45 PM. The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:30 PM.

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I have a food allergy can I make a special request?

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Absolutely! Reach out to the bride or groom with any allergy related concerns/request