FAQs
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What will the weather be like?
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Typically mid 70s but can get to low 80s
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Is there a dress code?
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Yes, I’d like for everyone to dress in formal or cocktail attire. Ladies if you’d like to dress up feel free! I’m wanting everyone to feel fancy if they’d like (think like fantasy ball gowns and such(crowns welcome 😉), big book girlie here!)
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Are there colors or styles you’d prefer me to wear?
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Just no bright bold colors or green dresses as that is the bridesmaids colors, thank you. If you need any ideas feel free to reach out!
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Will there be food and drinks?
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Yes! We will be serving a buffet style dinner. We will also have a selection of both alcoholic and nonalcoholic drinks available.
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Can we take pictures doing the ceremony?
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No. We kindly ask that phones or cameras either be shut off or silenced and put away until the ceremony concludes. During cocktail hour and the reception take as many pictures as you like! We plan on setting up a QR code where you will be able to share some!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Although we would love to offer a plus one to all guests, we have a strict guest list to stay in budget and meet our venue restrictions. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you.
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What if I can’t make it?
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You will be missed, but we completely understand. Please RSVP “decline” as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please arrive by 5:30 pm.
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Will there be an after party?
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We decided it’s better for us, as parents, to get some sleep once the reception is over so we will not be having an after party.
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What should I do if I am running late to the ceremony?
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If you are running late, please arrive as quietly as you can to not interrupt the ceremony, and kindly find a seat in the back.
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What is the best way to RSVP?
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The best way is on this site, using the RSVP tab, enter your name all guests names should appear along with yours. If you are having trouble for some reason just shoot me a message.
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What date do I need to RSVP by?
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We are asking that all RSVP’s be submitted by February 4, 2025. This will allow us time to submit final headcount’s to our vendors. If we do not hear from you by the date we will assume you can not make it.
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Is there enough parking at the venue?
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Yes! The barn at crescent lake has a parking lot to accommodate all guests and is located just a short walk from the ceremony/reception sites.
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Any other questions?
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Feel free to text me (Melanie) at (805)216-6647. I’m happy to answer any questions y’all may have!
