FAQs

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Can I bring a date?

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Your RSVP will indicate whether your invitation includes a plus-one. We wish we could celebrate with everyone's significant other, but due to our venue's capacity, we're only able to accommodate the guests listed on each invitation. Thank you for understanding!

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Can I bring my kids?

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While we love your little ones, we've chosen to make our wedding an adults-only celebration due to venue capacity. We appreciate your understanding and hope you'll enjoy a fun night out with us!

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It's my first Indian wedding, what should I expect?

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We're so excited you'll be celebrating with us! Our wedding will blend traditional Indian customs with a modern approach that reflects who we are as a couple. The ceremony will be led by a Pandit (priest) and will include meaningful traditions such as the Jaimala (garland exchange) and the Pheras, where we'll circle the sacred fire several times representing promises we make to one another. Throughout the ceremony, the Pandit will explain the rituals and provide English translations, so everyone can follow along. The ceremony will last about an hour. Beyond the ceremony, expect plenty of amazing food, music, and dancing! If you're joining us for the Mehndi celebration, you're also welcome to have henna applied. Most importantly, come ready to celebrate - we are excited to share these traditions with all of our family and friends.

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Do I need to wear Indian clothing?

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Traditional Indian attire is absolutely welcome, but it's never expected. A suit, cocktail dress, or other formal attire is just as appropriate.

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I've never worn Indian clothing before, where should I start?

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If you'd like to wear Indian clothing, women often choose a lehenga or saree, while men typically wear a kurta or sherwani. The easiest way to shop is to visit a local Indian clothing boutique, where the staff can help you find the right style, fit, and accessories for your first outfit. If there isn't a store nearby, there are plenty of great online retailers to choose from - just be sure to have your measurements handy before ordering. Since many of our guests are coming from the New York City and Minneapolis areas, we recommend exploring the shops in Jackson Heights or South Richmond Hill in Queens, Journal Square in Jersey City, or NM Designs in Northeast Minneapolis. If you're elsewhere, a quick search for "Indian clothing near me" will likely point you to a local boutique. And don't be afraid of color! Indian weddings are known for their vibrant, festive attire, so feel free to embrace bright colors and bold patterns. Most importantly, wear whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident - we're just excited to celebrate with you!

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What is the Mehndi & Sangeet event?

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Our Mehndi & Sangeet is a combined pre-wedding celebration where family and friends come together to kick off the wedding weekend. During the event, guests are invited to have henna (mehndi) applied on their hands, a tradition that symbolizes love, joy, prosperity, and good fortune. While henna is traditionally associated with women, it's common for men to get smaller designs as well, and everyone is welcome to participate. The celebration also includes the spirit of a Sangeet, with great food, music, dancing, and time to mingle with family and friends. Whether you're getting henna, enjoying the performances, or hitting the dance floor, we hope you'll join us for a fun and festive afternoon!

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony will take place outdoors in the venue's garden. Cocktail hour will be held both outdoors in the garden and indoors in the adjacent gallery space, while the reception will be indoors in the theater. Mid-October in New York is typically mild/cool, with daytime temperatures in the mid 60s°F/17°C and evenings in the low 50s°F/10°C . We recommend bringing a light jacket for the outdoor portions of the evening.

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What kind of food will be served?

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We're excited to share some of our favorite Indian dishes with you! Dinner will feature a generous buffet with a variety of appetizers, entrées, sides, and desserts, with plenty of both vegetarian and non-vegetarian options.

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What if I have food allergies?

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Please let us know if you have any food allergies, and we'll do our best to accommodate you. Since Zach has Celiac disease, the majority of our menu will be gluten-free, with the exception of breads and a few side dishes. All dishes will be clearly labeled with common allergens.