FAQs

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Should I give a wedding gift?

Answer

We've been building a life together for 15 years now (and collecting things for at least 14 of those), including settling into our home over the past 6+ years, so we truly don't need any gifts. Having you there to celebrate with us is more than enough! If you're feeling extra generous, we'd love for you to make a donation to a cause you care about, and would love to hear why it matters to you.

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please let us know if you will attend by June 30, 2026

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Sort of - think farm semi-formal: classy, but practical enough for grass, dirt, and a bit of line dancing.

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

As much as we’d love to invite all of our friends’ children, we can only accommodate a few close family children. We hope that you will understand this decision and that you will still be able to join us on our special day.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

Yes - check out the travel page!

Question

I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

There is a space to enter dietary restrictions in the RSVP. If you didn't get to enter it there, please reach out with your restrictions.

Question

I would like to recite a poem, sing a song, or perform a dance I made just for you. Is this allowed?

Answer

Absolutely. Original performances are strongly encouraged.