FAQs

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What is the dress code?

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We kindly ask that you wear formal attire. We suggest men in suits and women in long dresses or elevated cocktail. If you need any inspiration look here:

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Will we be outside?

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Yes! Weather permitting, the ceremony will take place outdoors, and the cocktail hour will be indoor/outdoor. The reception and after party will be held indoors.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We are so excited to celebrate with our closest friends and family! In order to keep the wedding intimate, only those friends & family formally invited will be able to be accommodated. If you received a plus one, that will be listed on your invitation RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but we’re planning an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off to relax and celebrate with us!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by March 1st. If we don’t hear from you by then, we’ll assume you’re unable to attend. Thank you for helping us plan!

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Will there be alcohol?

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Yes! Drinks are on us, and the hangover is on you!

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Will transportation be available?

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Yes! We will be providing transportation to friends and family staying at the following locations: - Chatham Wayside Inn (room block here) - Greyfinch Inn (room block here) - Inn on the Beach - Chatham Tides - Hankerchief Shoals - Kingfischer Harwichport Due to the variety of locations that our friends and family may be staying at, we are unable to provide transportation from other hotels or private rentals. There is overnight parking available onsite. Thank you for understanding!

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, parking is available at the Wychmere. Family & friends can arrive starting at 5pm and should follow signs for the "Harbor Room" for parking.

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What is the attire for the welcome party?

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Our welcome party will be smart casual dress code. Come hungry and ready to bowl (if you choose to do so)! We can't wait to hang out with everyone before we tie the knot!