Drive (there's ample parking!) or take the shuttle from Aloft/Hilton, which share a parking lot. Or drive to Aloft, park your car there, and take the shuttle to the wedding!
This is an Indian-US fusion wedding, so the attire is up to you! Feel free to wear cocktail or Indian attire--choose what makes you happy :). It will be indoors, so no need to worry about that, though the ceremony space can be a tiny bit chilly. If you want to participate in the Baraat, please bring a jacket!
As this is an evening event, and we want you to be able to let your hair down, we are asking that children stay safely in their beds unless they are under 12 months of age. We recommend www.care.com to find local sitters!