FAQs

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If I want to wear Indian attire, what should I get/look for?

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For our Hindu celebrations (Haldi/Mehendi, Wedding Ceremony), guests are welcome (but not required!) to wear Indian attire. We've created an "Indian Wear Cheat Sheet" to show you the different types of Indian outfits: https://tinyurl.com/indianwear4wedding Do not wear black or white to Indian weddings, as guests traditionally wear more vibrant colors. Here are some websites you can look at/buy authentic Indian wear from. Amazon is always a place you can buy from, but the quality will most likely be lower. Be aware that tariffs might mean shipping is at a higher cost. cbazaar.com kalkifashion.com lashkaraa.com

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Is it cultural appropriation to wear Indian attire?

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NO!! Not at all!! In fact, it is showing respect to the culture to dress in fashions that represent it. You can find more info on what to wear here: https://tinyurl.com/indianwear4wedding Just avoid wearing black and white to Indian celebrations (Haldi, Mehendi, and Ceremony) as those colors represent mourning, sorrow, and bad luck.

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Can I bring my kids to the Haldi/Mehendi Ceremony and reception?

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Absolutely!! You are welcome to bring kiddios of all ages. We know how tough it can be to coordinate babysitting schedules on a school night, so any/all are welcome to come and celebrate!

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What should I wear to the reception?

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You may wear Indian wear or American wear; whatever you feel most comfortable in. This is an American style reception, so you are welcome to wear black.

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What type of music should I expect to hear?

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Kiran's mother tongue is Telugu. You will hear a mix of Tollywood hits (movie songs in Telugu) and American music as well! Fun fact, Bollywood music is in Hindi! If you want to listen to more, check out this playlist on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6hQ6NTbY1ef4QAn9vkFRiF?si=88ebbceb40bd4fd7

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Where is Kiran from?

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South India - Hyderabad, India.

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Where is Megan from?

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Sandy, Utah, United States

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What is a South Indian Wedding, and how does it differ from other weddings?

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A South Indian wedding is deeply rooted in tradition, symbolism, and spirituality. Every ritual has a meaning and purpose. For those attending Indian Wedding Festivities (Haldi/Mehendi, Ceremony) we will provide background on what each of the mini-rituals signify.

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What is a muhurtam?

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It is the most auspicious astrologically (based on the bride and grooms horoscopes) chosen moment when an important event should take place. In a Hindu wedding, it specifically refers to the exact sacred time when the couple performs the main marriage ritual (Jeelakarra Bellam)