We’re getting married!

I was new to Batavia High School but knew everyone in my grade from middle school. She was a junior and I was a sophomore, I’d heard about her from quite a few friends but hadn’t seen her much in the hallways, until one day in the parking lot leaving school. The truck stood out to me, pretty truck with a loud exhaust was the first thing I noticed. As the truck got closer, I could start to make out her face, long hair, stunning, the type of girl that literally leaves you staring. Knowing I wasn’t your type, at least I thought, I still attempted to get your attention. I would roll my windows down, blare music and sit in my truck hoping she’d look. Later on, I would take a risky chance at commenting on her Instagram post, three days went by, and nothing. My last attempt at seeing if she’d responded left with her phone number, thanks to Mallory. Sending the text was the scariest thing I’d done, but it was worth it. One text led to days and days of conversation, good mornings and goodnights. She was shy and talking in the hallway wasn’t her best idea of communication, but I made it work. I went to softball games, volleyball games, horse shows, and anything else I could to show her how interested I was. Over the years I have seen Megan’s shell break more and more, and I have discovered a beautiful soul, with so much passion and love. I have been there through her tough moments in life, through the college exams and missing home. I wouldn’t trade any of it for the world. Six years ago, I would have never believed anyone if they said I would be engaged with a house and about to get married, but it is happening. The woman I’m marrying has helped me through my darkest times and pulled me out of bad decisions. This has been an adventure and I have loved every second of it. I can only imagine the years to come and the memories that will be made.

It began in 2013, at my junior homecoming, where there was this boy who so badly wanted a dance. Him and his friends continually begged me to dance with him, just once before the night was over. I had no idea who this new boy was, and it made me nervous. Flash forward, to April and this new boy became to be known as my boyfriend. He was exactly the kind of boy who I had always imagined being with; athletic, put his family first, and loves without end. I didn’t know it then, but I had found the one whom my soul loves. Throughout that summer, my senior year, and his senior year, he was always there. We supported each other in all aspects, of our quickly changing lives. He was always a constant face I could find at my volleyball games, softball games, horse shows, goat shows, academic endeavors, and my college graduation. On Friday nights I would drive home from college after volleyball practice to be there for his football games, I’d come for the weekends for his wrestling tournaments, his high school graduation, and watched him begin his career in the workforce without hesitation. While we have been together, I have not only watched Jake transform into this amazing person, but I have watched myself change. Before him, I was quiet and reserved and after him, I have become someone I truly love. Someone who now speaks her mind, shows her true self, and isn’t afraid to love. Together we make the best of teams, something I was fortunate to find at such a young age; while some search a lifetime. I know as we take the next step together into life, Jake will be there for it all. He is amazing with kids, loves to make others laugh, and is as selfless as they come. I could never imagine myself with another. He amazes me everyday with his fortunate heart, and I can only think how fortunate I have been this whole time to be able to love him. I cannot wait for forever! We are so excited to celebrate this next chapter in our lives with you!