The first time that we met was so casual that we remember very little. Megan was eating lunch with some friends at the cafeteria when Alex joined the table (we had some mutual friends). Megan remembers that he made some funny jokes. Alex remembers her freckles. We met again at a church community group. Alex was seeing a movie afterward with some friends and Megan, wanting to get to know the group more, took up the invitation to join them. He gave Megan a ride. We watched a movie. We discussed the movie. We talked in his car until curfew. The rest is history.