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May 26, 2026
Charlotte, NC
#MeetTheShoffners

Charisse & Kenyatta

Wedding Party

The Wedding Website of Charisse Parker and Kenyatta Shoffner
Meet our family and friends who are walking down the aisle with us.

Mark Frazier

Best Man

Mark isn’t just Ken’s best man—he’s a man of many titles and even more talents. By day, he’s shaping minds and behavior as the Dean of Behavior at Uplift Education and an Assistant Professor of Practice at the University of Texas at Arlington’s School of Social Work. By night (and Sundays), he’s leading the charge as the Minister of Music at Fellowship Missionary Baptist Church in Fort Worth, proving that his influence stretches from the classroom to the choir stand. With a heart for education, a passion for music, and the patience of a saint (which probably comes in handy dealing with both students and Ken), Mark is the kind of friend everyone needs. As best man, he’s ready to support Ken on his big day—though let’s be honest, he’s also keeping a close eye to make sure Ken doesn’t mess up his vows!


Stephen Kelly

Best Man

Steve Kelly is a proud father of four daughters, one son, and approximately 17 hairlines lost to raising them all. A hardworking man by day and a keyboard wizard by night, Steve’s true passion lies in tickling the ivories—whether it’s on a grand piano or his beloved Hammond organ. Known for his unmatched dedication to family, his musical chops, and a dad-joke arsenal that keeps everyone groaning, Steve strikes all the right chords in life—and usually in the key of Bflat

Crystal Lundy

Maid of Honor

Crystal, known as “Captain Crys” for her drive and focus, brings that same energy to celebrating love and friendship. A proud mother of two amazing daughters, she strives to be their inspiration every day. She has a passion for traveling, working out, and picking up new hobbies—knitting being her latest adventure. On this special day, she is honored to stand by her best friend, Risse, of over 50 years, as she embarks on her next chapter in love.


Sharnaee Newson aka "HalfPint"

Maid of Honor

Sharnaee, better known as “Half-Pint,” is a powerhouse in a petite package—a pro hairstylist, salon owner, and wardrobe stylist with a flair for making people look and feel like celebrities (including herself, of course—just ask her!). Known for her infamous catchphrase, “Yes, I’m something like a celebrity!” she’s got the confidence to match her talent. A straight shooter with a heart of gold, Sharnaee is as loyal as they come. She loves traveling, spending time with family and friends, and keeping it real at all times. Now, she’s beyond excited to trade in her styling tools for a bouquet as she stands beside her “Sissy” Risse as one of her Maids of Honor—ready to celebrate love, laughter, and happily ever after in Charlotte, NC

Quintin Shoffner

Jr. Best Man

The Groom’s 1st born Son Quintin, my oldest son, is a highly skilled drummer and producer with a natural talent for rhythm and sound. His creativity behind the drums and in the studio sets him apart, making him a force in the music world. Beyond his musical abilities, he’s known for his sharp sense of humor and ability to make anyone laugh. Interestingly, he looks more like my twin brother, if I had one lol, which always keeps people entertained!”


Tyler Shoffner

Jr. Best Man

The Groom’s 2nd born son “Tyler is a driven and hardworking entrepreneur who knows how to hustle and make things happen. Passionate about rehabbing and building houses, he’s always focused on turning visions into reality. But don’t let his business mindset fool you—he’s also a natural comedian, keeping everyone around him laughing. Musically talented, Tyler holds it down on the drums and even dabbles in keys as his ‘minor’ instrument. Whether he’s on a job site or behind a drum kit, he brings energy, skill, and a great sense of humor to everything he does.”

Daisha Hines

Jr. Maid of Honor

The Bride's 1st Born Daughter Daisha, the proud eldest of Charisse’s two beautiful daughters, is a true creative force! An artist through and through, she’s currently building her own press-on nail business, and let’s just say—her designs are nothing short of amazing. If nails could win awards, hers would be collecting trophies left and right! Described as outspoken, creative, empathetic, quirky, sweet, and strong, Daisha is the perfect mix of fire and heart. She’s never afraid to speak her mind, but she’s also the first to offer kindness and support to those she loves. And when it comes to love, nothing makes her happier than seeing her mom find it with Ken. Watching Charisse step into this new chapter is a joy, and Daisha wouldn’t miss celebrating it for the world!


Skylar Parker

Jr. Maid of Honor

The Bride's 2nd Born Daughter Skylar has had the absolute privilege of knowing the beautiful bride her entire life—because, well, Charisse happens to be her mom! From day one, Skylar has been soaking up her mother’s love, wisdom, and probably a few of her best recipes. A true bookworm and adventurer, she finds joy in reading, traveling, wandering through museums, and indulging in her love of interior design. In the kitchen, Skylar is a force to be reckoned with—whipping up delicious meals and baked goods, though she mysteriously never seems to eat them herself (much to the benefit of everyone around her). Her love of history and psychology has turned her into a walking encyclopedia of fun (and sometimes obscure) facts, making her the person you want on your trivia team. And when it’s time to unwind? You’ll find her curled up watching a Marvel movie, a spine-chilling horror film, or a romcom that makes her laugh just as much as it makes her swoon.

Ivan Lowery

Groomsman

Ivan, one of Ken’s trusted groomsmen, is the guy you want around if you ever need a random yet fascinating historical fact. A self-proclaimed collector of useless but interesting trivia, he can turn any conversation into a history lesson—whether you asked for it or not! With a knack for making even the most obscure facts sound intriguing, Ivan ensures there’s never a dull moment when he’s around. As a groomsman, he’s honored to stand by Ken’s side, but let’s be real—he’s also probably got a historical fun fact about weddings locked and loaded, just waiting for the perfect moment to drop it!


Tyler Welch

Groomsman

Nephew of the Bride Tyler is, without a doubt, the best nephew Charisse could ask for—smart, laid-back, effortlessly cool, and the kind of guy you can always count on. Family-oriented and reliable, he’s the one who shows up when you need him—unless, of course, there’s a goose involved. Then all bets are off! Tyler is a man of many talents. He can cook up a delicious meal, play the piano like a pro, and settle in for a Marvel movie marathon without missing a single detail. As a groomsman, he’s honored to stand by his uncle Ken—but let’s be real, he’s also here for the good food, great company, and a 100% guaranteed goose-free celebration!

Shawn Williams aka "Blu"

Bridesmaid

For over 30 years, Shawn—better known as Blu—has been Charisse’s sister, not by blood but by heart. Through thick and thin, laughs and tears, they’ve been ride or die, proving that family isn’t just about DNA. By day, Blu is an EMT Medical Technician at a Level 1 Trauma Unit. But don’t be fooled—when she’s off duty, she’s the life of the party! Her quick wit and legendary one-liners guarantee that there’s never a dull moment when she’s around. As for the wedding in Jamaica? Blu is beyond excited to watch her sis walk down the aisle to her future brother in law—though let’s be real, she’s equally excited to do it while sipping a Bob Marley drink in her bridesmaid dress. Priorities, right? (Just kidding… kind of!)


Erika Gibson

Bridesmaid

Erika is a devoted wife, a proud mother of one, and a grandmother to three—though you’d never guess it just by looking at her! For over 30 years, she’s been more than just a best friend to Charisse; she’s been a sister in every way that matters. Their bond has stood the test of time, laughter, and life’s ups and downs, and she couldn’t be more grateful that God brought Ken and Risse together. Now, as they step into this exciting new chapter, Erika is beyond thrilled to celebrate their love and be part of the journey ahead!

Corey Hines

Groomsman

Brides favorite Big Brother Corey wears many hats—counselor, life coach, girls’ college basketball coach, and now, future brother-in-law to the groom. But perhaps his most prestigious title (at least according to Ken) is “Eric BoNET”—a nickname he may or may not have approved of but has fully embraced nonetheless. Most importantly, Corey holds the lifelong honor of being Charisse’s favorite big brother. And as he proudly walks her down the aisle, he’ll be fulfilling his most important coaching role yet—making sure his little sister makes it to the altar without tripping, crying too much, or running off before saying “I do!”


Keith L. Harris

Groomsman

A native of Liberty, North Carolina, Keith is the devoted husband to Crystal Shoffner Harris (Aunt of the Groom) and the proud father and stepfather of five. He is a proud graduate of North Carolina A&T State University — AGGIE PRIDE! and a Life Member of both the Gate City Alumni Chapter of A&T and Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. Following a successful 30-year professional career in management, Keith continues to make an impact as a college and high school basketball official and is currently employed by Cozie’s Supervised Living, Inc. He also serves as a certified trainer and facilitator for the State of North Carolina, specializing in interventions for individuals with behavioral disabilities. In his spare time, Keith enjoys loving his wife, traveling, and socializing with friends.

Sharonda Dobbins

Bridesmaid

For over 40 years—yes, you read that right—Sharonda has been one of Charisse’s most loyal, ride-or-die best friends. Through childhood, life’s ups and downs, and countless laughs, their friendship has stood the test of time (and probably a few questionable fashion choices over the decades). Sharonda knows a thing or two about love herself—she’s been happily married to her soulmate, the man she absolutely adores, for 23 years. Together, they’ve built a beautiful life with their two handsome sons and two amazing grandkids, who have completely stolen her heart. When she’s not soaking up family time, you can find her indulging in her favorite pastimes—shopping, making her home a cozy and stylish sanctuary, and cherishing moments with the people she loves most.


Damali Keith

Bridesmaid

Whose motto is “Kindness is contagious”? That would be Damali! She loves laughing, making memories with friends, family, and even the occasional stranger. Her passions include being a devoted mother, a child of God, shopping, swimming, and, of course, traveling. Damali is the proud mother of a beautiful 18-year-old daughter, who is currently a freshman in college studying abroad in Europe. A woman of deep faith, she has dedicated 30 years to her career as a TV news journalist. She lives by the belief that “If you see someone without a smile, give them yours!”

Hodges Brown

Groomsman

1st and 2nd cousin to the bride. Born Fairmont, WV. Moved to Charlotte, NC in grade school. Attended North Carolina A&T State University. Credentials: Commercial/Instrument Rotorcraft Helicopter Pilot. Flight Instructor & Instrument Instructor Rotorcraft Helicopter. Past Employment: Bristow Academy Titusville, FL. Helicopter Flight Instructor/Assistant Chief pilot Current Employment: Civilian Contractor For The US Armed Forces Fort Rucker, Alabama. Helicopter Instructor Pilot. Hobbies: Boating, Fishing, Hunting, Cooking, Motorcycling, Shooting & Archery. Current Status is Single.


Abby Brown

Petal Princess

Little Cousin to the Bride Meet Abby! She’s full of creativity and sunshine. Abby loves gymnastics and anything to do with art She’s always painting, crocheting, or making the cutest little gifts out of clay. She’s also in Girl Scouts and loves helping others whenever she can. Abby has a big heart and a big imagination! She even loves doing her friends’ hair, make-up, and nails. She’s our little stylist in the making. We can’t wait to see her sweet smile light up the aisle on our big day!

Brooklyn Brown

Petal Princess

Little cousin to the bride This is Brooklyn! She’s full of energy, laughter, and fun. Brooklyn is super athletic and loves both gymnastics and swimming. She’s also very creative — she enjoys painting, making clay gifts, and creating colorful bracelets for her friends. One of her favorite things to do is go fishing with her Uncle Hodgie — she never turns down a good fishing trip! Brooklyn’s bubbly personality and big smile are sure to make our day even brighter.


Natalie "Niecy Nat"

Flower Diva

Natalie, aka Niecy Nat (as Risse affectionately calls her), is the baby of the crew—but don’t let that fool you. She’s also the sassiest, with a face card so flawless it belongs on billboards and a work ethic so strong it could run a Fortune 500 company. Reliable, driven, and always bringing the energy, Natalie is the kind of friend you can count on for both a good laugh and a solid game plan. So naturally, when it came to her wedding role, Flower Girl just didn’t cut it. Instead, she’s stepping into her rightful title as the Flower Diva—because let’s be real, anything less just wouldn’t do!

Tracey Lee

Rose 🌹 Attendants

Tracey, affectionately known as “Fav” by Charisse, is the ultimate example of grace, style, and fun. A loving wife, devoted mother, and proud grandmother, she balances family life like a pro—all while keeping her wardrobe effortlessly on point. As a true clothes shopping connoisseur, she has a sixth sense for spotting the perfect outfit (and probably a VIP status at her favorite stores). When needed Tracey enjoys unwinding with a well-crafted lemon drop—because a little cocktail therapy never hurt anyone! And let’s not forget her sacred tradition: the yearly girls’ trip. It’s a non-negotiable event, filled with laughter, and good times , Charisse is beyond grateful to have her Fav by her side, both in life and on this special day!


Carissa Clark Pretti Redd

Rose 🌹 Attendants

Carissa, aka “Pretti Redd, what they call her,” is the non-DNA cousin Risse always needed❤️— She may have missed her true calling as a private investigator because this woman can crack a code like a seasoned detective, all while keeping a Pretti flawless poker face. If there’s a mystery to be solved, just hand it over to Carissa, and consider it handled. But beyond her detective skills, she’s the life of the party. When Carissa’s in the room, you know it’s about to be a good time—because with her quick wit, contagious energy, and that signature Pretti Redd charm, boredom simply isn’t an option!

Crystal Harris

Rose 🌹 Attendants

Crystal Harris is the proud aunt of the groom. She is the Executive Director of Cozie’s Supervised Living Inc., where she dedicates her work to supporting adults with intellectual and developmental disabilities. In her free time, Crystal enjoys spending time with family, traveling, and inspiring others through her faith and service. She is honored to share in this joyous celebration and wishes the newlyweds a lifetime of love, happiness, and God’s continued blessings.


Chester Hines aka "Chet"

Father of the Bride

**Loving Husband, Father, and Grandfather** On June 30, 2025, we said goodbye to our beloved Chester. Though his absence is deeply felt, the love, strength, and wisdom he poured into our lives remain with us every day. Chester was a devoted husband, a proud father, and a cherished grandfather. He was a steady source of encouragement and faith, always reminding his children to work hard for what they want and to keep God first in all they do. His guidance shaped our foundation, and his example continues to lead us forward. To his daughter Charisse, he was her protector, her teacher, and her biggest supporter. He lovingly called her “Baby Girl,” a name that will forever live in her heart. That simple phrase carries a lifetime of love, comfort, and belonging. While he is no longer here in person, his presence is felt throughout this celebration. We honor him, we miss him, and we carry his love with us always. Forever loved. Forever remembered. 🤍

Janet Hines

Mother of the Bride

Wife, Mother & Grandmother Charisse lovingly describes her mother, Jan, as the strongest, most dedicated, and deeply loving woman she knows. A true pillar of strength and grace, Jan has always led with her heart, offering support, wisdom, and kindness to those around her. Her love is the kind that nurtures, protects, and uplifts—a beautiful force that has shaped Charisse into the woman she is today. To know Jan is to know warmth, resilience, and a love that knows no bounds.


Gwendolyn Hunter

Mother of the Groom

Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother Kenyatta considers his mother his greatest blessing. She raised him as a single mother, never missing a beat, always showing up with love, strength, and unwavering support. He is who he is because of her, and he will always be grateful. More than words can ever express, he loves her.

Eugene Jordan

Father of the Groom

Father, Grandfather, Great Grandfather Kenyatta believes that family is defined by love, loyalty, and showing up—not just by blood. His dad entered his life when he was a teenager, but today, he loves him as if he had been there from the very beginning. He is deeply grateful to call him his father.


Stan Brown

Acting Father Of the Bride

**A Special Thank You to My Uncle** Stan Brown is not only my favorite uncle, he was also my father’s best friend. Their bond was built on love, loyalty, and years of brotherhood that meant the world to our family. When the time came for me to think about who would walk me down the aisle, there was no question in my heart. I am deeply honored and grateful that Uncle Stan was willing to step into such a meaningful role on my wedding day. His presence represents strength, protection, and the continued love of my father surrounding me. I know without a doubt that my father would be well pleased and would not want it any other way. Having Uncle Stan by my side is more than a gesture... it is family, it is legacy, and it is love.

Danielle-LaLona Moye

Our Angel Bridesmaid in Loving Memory

**In Loving Memory of Danielle-LaLona Moye** On February 3, 2026, our hearts were broken with the passing of Danielle-LaLona Moye, a beloved bridesmaid, cherished friend, and sister in every way that truly matters. For more than four decades, Danielle-LaLona stood beside the bride through every season of life. From youth to womanhood, through laughter, tears, milestones, and memories too countless to name, she remained a constant source of love and loyalty. Their bond was not just friendship, it was history, it was growth, it was a lifetime of shared moments. It was only natural that she would stand as a bridesmaid on this special day. And though she is not physically present, her spirit, her love, and her beautiful imprint are forever woven into this celebration. A friendship that lasted over 40 years does not end, it lives on in stories, in smiles, and in the heart of the bride who will always carry her. Forever loved. Forever cherished. Forever remembered. 🤍