If your invitation has your date name addressed on it the answer is yes, but if not, we prefer that it just be you. This is due to the fact that the venue space is limited.
Cocktail attire, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high for the grass or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.
We love your kids, we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off.