We love your kids, we really do! But we want all of our guests to be able to relax and enjoy themselves, so we've chosen to limit our special day to ages 14 and up. Thanks for understanding!
If your invitations says "and Guest," then yes. If not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.