FAQs

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What time should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving 20-30 minutes before the ceremony to park, find your seat, and enjoy the vineyard views.

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Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors on the vineyard lawn. Dinner and dancing will be in the Barrel Room & outdoor lawn at Lorimar.

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What’s the dress code?

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Semi-formal with a touch of Western charm. Soft, summery colors and light fabrics are encouraged for our vineyard setting. Light suits, button-downs, and flowy dresses are perfect. Cowboy boots and hats are welcome! Gentlemen, please avoid jeans. Ladies, please avoid white and denim.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate guests named on the invitation. Thank you so much for understanding!!

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Are kids invited?

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We love your little ones! However, our wedding will be adults-only, with the exception of children in the wedding party and our immediate family. Please refer to the RSVP list to see who is included.

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What about the weather?

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Early June in Temecula is usually warm and sunny (mid 70s–80s during the day, cooler at night). We recommend: light layers, comfortable shoes, and sunglasses for the ceremony.

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Will transportation be provided?

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We recommend guests Uber or carpool to and from Lorimar. Parking is available on-site as well.

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What should I do between the ceremony and reception?

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Cocktail hour will have drinks, appetizers, and plenty of space to mingle. We’ll be taking photos nearby. As well as time to smoke cigars!

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What time does the wedding end?

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We’ll share a soft goodbye at 10:00 PM for our younger guests and anyone heading out early. After that, the music turns up and the party becomes a little less kid- and grandma-friendly. For those staying, keep the boots on for line dancing and late-night fun! We’ll wrap up the night with our official send-off at 11:00 PM.

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Is there an after-party?

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More info to come!

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Do you have a registry?

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Yes! See it under the "Registry" page. Your presence truly means the most, but if you’d like to give a gift, any gift is appreciated!!!

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Should we bring cash?

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If you’d like! We will have a money dance during the reception and raffle, which goes directly toward our honeymoon fund. These are completely optional but always fun!

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What’s the raffle?

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We’re doing a lighthearted raffle at the reception — the winner gets the special honor of signing our marriage license with us! Tickets are optional and can be purchased with cash or venmo.

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I have a question that isn’t listed here…

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Text or call Becca or Hayden — we’re here to help you plan your trip and celebrate with us!