FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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May 15th, 2026

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Are kids welcome?

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They are absolutely welcome!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We recommend sticking to the hotels on the list provided under "Travel" because they're the nicer and newer options in the better areas of town. We also recommend Airbnbs close to Downtown Lodi.

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Is there a dress code?

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Summertime Cocktail Attire. A dress that makes you feel fabulous and suit pants and dress shirts. Suit jackets and ties are optional. It will likely be warm at the beginning of the party but may get chilly in the evening. We kindly ask you refrain from jeans (sorry Canadian tuxedos).

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Parking is located within the venue on the south side of the big barn. The small parking lot on the cement is unavailable and no parking on the street. We'll have signs, don't worry!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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We recommend Uber or Lyft.

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Wait....you're already married WTH?!

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Yes! Didn't you hear? We eloped in Scotland but don't worry, we have pictures and stories!!

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Can I bring a date?

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Probably! Shoot us a text to confirm

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please let us know and we'll do our best to accommodate!

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What time should I arrive at the party?

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It's flexible! Drinks and apps start at 5:30pm, dinner will be around 6:30pm.