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Here are some of the most common questions. If you have more, email staggsbarmitzvah@gmail.com.
Question

What should I wear to services on Friday and Saturday?

Answer

We ask that you dress modestly for services, a little nicer than you would on a normal day. For male-identifying guests, this means a collared shirt and slacks or a suit. On Friday night, Max, Miriam, and Tyler will be wearing collared shirts and slacks. Saturday morning, Max will be wearing a suit, as will Miriam and Tyler. Please do not wear jeans or t-shirts or tank tops. Kippot (head coverings) will be available outside of the sanctuary, and we ask that male-identifying guests wear one, whether you are Jewish or not. Tallit are available at the shul. For our female-identifying guests, we ask that on Friday night and Saturday morning you make sure you cover your shoulders. Please do not wear jeans or t-shirts or tank tops. Female-identifying guests may choose to wear a kippa (head covering) or not. Non-binary guests may choose whatever attire suits them, following the same dress code.

Question

Can I use my phone or take pictures during services?

Answer

No, thank you. In order to maintain and preserve the sanctity of Shabbat, please refrain from picture taking, using cellular phones, or any gaming devices on the synagogue premises. Please turn off your phones when you enter the synagogue. By “synagogue premises” we mean not only in the sanctuary, but also any areas in the building. There is no individual taping of any kind, audio or visual, on the Friday night or Saturday services or luncheon.

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Are toddlers/little kids invited to the evening celebration?

Answer

The Saturday night party is for children ages 6 and up. For childcare, if you are an out-of-town guest, we suggest NW Nannies: https://nwnannies.net. Children of all ages are welcome to the Friday night service, Saturday morning service, and Sunday brunch! There will be childcare at the synagogue during the Saturday morning service from 9am - noon.

Question

Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

There is a parking lot in front of the synogogue that is free on Shabbat for those attending services who drive themselves. There is limited street parking at the Evergreen, and we recommend taking a Lyft or Uber. Buses will be provided for hotel guests to use to and from the Friday night service/dinner, the Saturday service/kiddush, and the Saturday evening celebration.

Question

Can I bring a guest not named on the invitation?

Answer

Please RSVP only for those named on the invitation. Thanks!

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