For those extended family members who may not have seen us for a while - yes, we are both transgender. Vincent uses they/them pronouns and Max uses he/him pronouns. Our wedding, a day to celebrate us, is not the place for any discussion on this. We insist you stay home if you have any intention to disregard, disrespect, speak on, or otherwise cause issue over this at our wedding. You will be asked to leave. Thank you in advance for your respect and love and we are so excited to celebrate with you!
Please arrive at 5:00 pm. Allow 15 minutes for trains on route to the venue.
Parking is in public spaces in front of the venue. There should be overflow parking on neighboring residential streets. Try to carpool!
Please only bring a date if your invite includes a plus one. We would love to have your date celebrate with us, but throwing a wedding is expensive business! Thanks for understanding.
If they are included on your invitation, yes! Surprise kids, no.
The dress code is formal cocktail dress in jewel tones, and do not wear white. Please take a look at the "Theme" tab at the top of the screen for detailed inspiration photos!
There are multiple adorable Bed and Breakfasts near the venue to check out. Hotel Lotus at 3830 Blue Ridge Cut Off, Kansas City, MO is a reasonable hotel less than 10 minutes from the venue.