We love your kids- we do! But we want our wedding to be your night off!! We hope you understand that with so many great kids in our friends circle and family it is hard to decide who can come and who can not. Therefore, we have decided on a kid free night for all except those who are in the bridal party. We appreciate your thoughtfulness!
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, then we would prefer it was just you!
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose!
To be fair and consistent with everyone we have decided to invite guests 20 years old and over. Only exceptions to be made are those in the bridal party. Thank you for your understanding!