FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, the deadline is September 30, 2025. If we don't receive your RSVP by this date, we cannot make exceptions, and we will have to mark you as 'no.' We are required to provide our vendors with a total guest count in a timely manner. We hope you understand.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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We’re going to miss you! Please respond as soon as you can and let us know you’ll be unable to attend, so we can plan accordingly.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your guest name is listed on your invite and when you RSVP, then yes! Your invitation will be made out to "[Your name] and Guest" if a plus one has been given to you. We can only allow the people named on your invitation as we would love to keep our wedding an intimate event with close family and friends.

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What should I wear?

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The dress code for our wedding is smart casual. Gentlemen, please wear a button-down shirt or polo. Jeans are permitted, but we kindly ask that they be free of holes and stains. Ladies, a casual dress, skirt, dress pants, or jeans paired with a nice top would be wonderful. We kindly ask that guests avoid wearing black—black pants are absolutely fine, but we request no black dresses or tops.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will be starting at 2:00 pm. To avoid being late or missing anything we recommend arriving at least 20 minutes before that time to allow for parking and finding a seat before it starts!

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes! There is a gravel parking lot steps away from the venue. You may leave your car overnight, if necessary, and it must be gone by 10 am the next morning.

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Is the wedding outside?

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The ceremony and reception will take place indoors. While the room is being switched over for the reception, we will have the cocktail hour outdoors, weather permitting! In the event of a storm or low temperatures, we will have the cocktail hour indoors.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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The wedding ceremony and reception will be held in the same location. While the room is being reset, feel free to sign our guest book, enjoy the cocktail hour, and stick around for dinner!

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Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?

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Your presence at the wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, please send it to our home address at 2345 Fiddlers Close Road, Washington, MO 63090. A wedding card box will be at our reception as well!

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Can I take and post pictures of the event?

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We would love for our family and friends to be fully present in the moment with us, so we kindly ask you to put your phones away and on silent for an unplugged ceremony. There will be a photographer to capture this special day and we'd hate for their ceremony shots to have phones in them. We are more than happy for you to take photos/videos once the ceremony is over!