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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Sarah Shaler and Matthew Marcoly
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by October 12, 2025.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Entrance to the venue and seating begins at 2:30 p.m. We request that guests remain in the parking area until 2:30 to allow pre-celebration preparation to be finalized! Ceremony to begin promptly at 3:00 p.m.

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What is the dress code for your wedding?

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Let's get fancy! Think coats and ties, floor-length and tea-length dresses preferred, formal separates.

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Where should I bring/send my wedding gift?

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While gifts are appreciated, please know that your presence is present enough! If you wish to send a gift: If having gifts delivered, our registry will direct gifts to our home. Feel free to bring gifts to the venue instead! There will be a designated area for gifts at the venue.

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Are kids welcome?

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Take the night off! We invite you to join us for an adults-only evening of dinner and dancing.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Pala Mesa Resort is a short drive away (15 minutes). The Welk Resort in Escondido. (25 minutes)

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! There will be ample free parking for our venue in the upper part of the parking lot.

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Will there be an open bar?

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There will be a hosted bar for specialty cocktails and mocktails, wine, beer, soda, and soft drinks.

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What time will the wedding reception end? Is there an after party?

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We will be making our grand exit at 10:00 p.m. No after party to follow. Please get home safely!

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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We will be having an unplugged ceremony, though we will have a brief period where guests will be permitted to take photos before the ceremony resumes. Take all the photos you wish during cocktail hour and the reception! We will provide a QR code to upload all of your memories!

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What will be served at the wedding?

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We will be serving a buffet with plenty of options for everyone! There will be options including beef, chicken, and vegetarian pasta, salads, charcuterie, and cake. Plenty for everyone to enjoy!

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Can I bring a date?

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Because we are having an intimate celebration, we are unfortunately unable to accommodate plus ones. Please refer to your wedding invitations.

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Will the wedding be indoors?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors, with reception under a grand canopy!

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Will there be a wedding hashtag?

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Yes! #OnCloudShaler-Marcoly

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Any other questions?

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Feel free to reach out to Matt or Sarah!