We love your kids- we REALLY do. But we want our wedding to your night off. Please plan accordingly. We have contacted a couple babysitters to make that a reality, just ask if you want more info.)
There are numerous hotels within a short drive, as well as countless AIRBNB and other options. For a unique place check out Moonrise Hotel at 6177 Delmar. For an upscale room check out Hilton. There are many casinos in the area that offer many types of rooms. (Ameristar and Lumiere have some nice rooms, in different parts of metro)
Garden Attire: Wear sundresses, floral prints, suits in lighter hues, and fun hats and fascinators.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.