FAQs

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Optional semi-casual dress code details for reception:

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Semi-casual is best described as polished but comfortable. We kindly ask that all guests please attend the ceremony wearing semi-formal attire. You are also welcome to wear semi-casual attire for the reception, allowing you to be more comfortable. Semi-casual ex: Jeans (no holes) w/ a clean dress shirt, button-down shirt, blouse, polo, etc. Khakis, dress slacks, leggings w/clean sneakers, loafers, leather shoes, flats, wedges, or nice sandals. Maxi dresses and floral dresses are ok.

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Are there any color coordinations?

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Wedding guests are kindly asked to coordinate at least one piece of attire using shades close to these options: olive green, khaki, wine, champagne, or burnt orange. Please note, this is not a requirement but highly preferred.

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What time should guests arrive to the ceremony?

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All guests are asked to be present an hour to half an hour for guests who have been directly invited to the ceremony as SF City Hall parking is very limited and traffic will highly impact travel time and parking availability

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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All guests must please RSVP by April 18th, 2026. All food, drinks, etc. will be accounted for by the deadline, no exceptions. Please note it is best practice to input reminders on your phone or calendar before the required deadline.

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Can I bring a plus one/date?

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The guests on your invite are the only ones invited to attend the event. No plus ones/dates unless specified.

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Are children invited?

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We ask that guests do not bring any children as the special occasion is set to be an adult only event.

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Am I allowed to take photos during the ceremony?

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We kindly ask for you to please do not take photos with your phones during the ceremony. A photographer will be capturing all moments during the ceremony.

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Is there a phone rule during the ceremony?

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All phones must be on silent or do not disturb.

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How can wedding gifts be purchased?

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Please refer all wedding gifts via registry. Physical gifts are welcomed at the reception and cash is highly appreciated. If interested in sending cash please send via ZELLE to Matthew Trejo at (408) 781-8066.

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Is there assigned seating for guests who are invited to the ceremony?

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There is no assigned seating for guests who have been directly invited to the ceremony. However, space is limited please note that there are limited seats that can seat up to 40 guests out of 60. Because there will be no assigned seating, seats are available on a first come first serve basis. Those who cannot come on time will need to stand throughout the ceremony.