FAQs
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How do I get to the Mayor's Balcony?
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Enter through the main doors on Polk Street, then head up the grand staircase. The Mayor’s Balcony is on the second floor, overlooking the rotunda. There will be signs and staff to guide you.
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When should I arrive?
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Please plan to arrive at least 15-20 minutes before the ceremony begins so you have time to park, pass through security, and find your seat. City Hall is big, so arriving a little early helps avoid stress.
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What should I wear?
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Wedding attire semi-formal Think celebratory, elegant, and city chic—formal enough for timeless photos, but relaxed enough to enjoy a casual lunch afterward. Please avoid wearing white or ivory dresses
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Where should I park?
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City hall: We recommend the Civic Center Plaza Garage (355 McAllister St), which is a short walk from City Hall. Scoma's: Complimentary valet parking is available right out front. If valet is full, parking is validated at the Triangle Lot (Jefferson & Taylor).
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Can I bring an extra guest, kids, or more than my +1?
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We kindly ask that you only bring the guest(s) listed on your invitation. Since this is an intimate elopement-style wedding, seating at City Hall and lunch at Scoma’s are very limited. While we’d love to celebrate with everyone, we’re hoping to keep the gathering adults-only. That said, we understand childcare isn’t always possible—if it’s truly out of your control, please don’t hesitate to bring your little one.
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Can I take photos or video during the ceremony?
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Absolutely! City Hall is stunning, and you’re welcome to snap photos and capture video. We’ll also have a photographer documenting the day, but in fact, we’d love for you to take photos, record videos, and share them with us afterward—the more memories, the better! Please upload all your photos and videos to the shared Google Photos album! https://photos.app.goo.gl/SRrdpjv2giLXEFiU7 or better yet, airdrop them to matthew or hanh [better quality!] Can I post on social media? Absolutely, tag away! (Bonus points if you make us look taller and slimmer.)
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Lunch Outfit?
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Feel free to stay in your ceremony outfit. Lunch will be more laid-back and relaxed, so you’ll be comfortable either way.
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What's the vibe of the day?
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Intimate, joyful, and stress-free. We just want to celebrate love with our favorite people (that’s you!). Think heartfelt ceremony, timeless photos, and a cozy meal together. No big production, just genuine moments, laughter, and togetherness.
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Is there a reception after the ceremony?
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We’d love for you to join us at Scoma’s for a relaxed lunch/brunch gathering. It’s not a formal reception, just a cozy, heartfelt meal with our favorite people to celebrate love and togetherness. Sorry boys & girls, there's no dance floor. We’re keeping it simple. Think more champagne toasts and laughter than dance floor.
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Seating
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City Hall only allows 40 chairs, so we’re reserving the front rows for family and the wedding party. Friends, you may need to stand—but don’t worry, the ceremony will be short and sweet. What about the lunch at Scoma’s? Seating there will be assigned, so everyone will have a spot to relax, eat, and celebrate with us.
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Will there be a dance or afterparty?
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Nah...we’re keeping it light and casual. Not your typical wedding reception. After all, it’s a Tuesday. As for the afterparty? A nap. And yes, we’re serious. Pajamas > Party shoes.
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Do you have a gift registry?
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Your presence truly means the most to us! But if you’d like to contribute, we’ve set up a Newlywed Fund to help us kick off married life. No toaster ovens, please—we already have one. We promise to spend it on more than matcha and Trader Joe’s runs.
